we're talking about what it does and what it represents. taste is a red herring and it demolishes all productive conversation. there's music you get and music you havent understood yet. getting music means it does to you what it is designed to do to you. it doesnt mean being able to see it as a set of musical notations. it means it plays you. it makes you the instrument. if you havent let this music do that to you, you havent understood it.