Oooh you handsome devil!

mms

sometimes
WOEBOT said:
i've been thinking about this.

and yes you're right. in some ways its easier to reflect upon "male beauty", appreciate it for what it is, and pass on it :)

distractingly sexy women in music! indeed that is a sticky topic. actually in the field of "alternative music" (excuse the shorthand) i think sexy girls are quite hard to come by. actually when i have a reaction it tends to be kinda swoony, imbued with ambitious romanticism. its almost always inspired by sound too, like for instance joni mitchell's "blue" or vashti bunyan's "another diamond day"

charismatic looking women in music?!? they almost always seem to be "unnattractive" to some degree, making the best of themselves, like Missy before she lost all her weight. kim gordon, who i don't fancy in the least, always looks cool. nico, well i'm sure olly craner probably finds her becoming, she leaves me cold, but stuns me with her elegance too.

of the punk girls its only the young vivienne goldman i find really fruity. have you seen that super-sexy photo of her and with john lydon in the background looking lascivious. she's divine.



i was totally obsessed by nico till i read that orrible book about her on her last tour.
she was extremely gorgeous and powerful.
 

puretokyo

Mercury Blues
mms said:
i was totally obsessed by nico till i read that orrible book about her on her last tour.
she was extremely gorgeous and powerful.

i just got 'the end', fucking fantastic. nico, cale and eno. its a sonic wet dream if nothing else. i like it a lot better than the marble index. shes something special - i love doom girls.
 

jenks

thread death
WOEBOT said:
charismatic looking women in music?!? they almost always seem to be "unnattractive" to some degree, making the best of themselves, like Missy before she lost all her weight. kim gordon, who i don't fancy in the least, always looks cool. .
pj harvey fits in here too, dunno though if your theory fits all though, i remember having quite a thing for danielle dax!!!
as far as the bloke thing goes i used to have sylvian, bowie, ian bunnyman, pete burns and mozzer plastered over every squareinch of my bedroom and somehow i managed to idolise them without fancying them, must be something to do withe pathology of fandom , i am sure fred vermoral could make soemthing of it. there seems to me little to compare to these guys who were all attractive but more importantly made attractive music. those that make attractive music of whatever stripe are not the handsome devils of the past - now it'sbedroom bofffs or tracksuit princes. you can see why they tried to resurrect the new roms with romo, shame tthe bands sucked so badly. but christ can we see an end to sports jackets and jeans a la the strokes - surely someone out there can wear tweed?
 

don_quixote

Trent End
i have friends who are obsessed by both pj harvey and bjork, but have never seen the attraction. well, i did with bjork, but it was only dancer in the dark that did it for me opposed to her actual music. and certainly that doesnt have anything to do with her fashion, she played someone going blind ffs.
 

owen

Well-known member
it is a sticky one, isn't it.

i tend to think bjork looks fantastic, in a very prog kind of way. there is a definite sexual tinge to that- i mean on the covers of her last two albums she does look oddly sated....
often though it isn't quite sexual, per se- i mean sleeping with nico would have been a preposterous idea (big up to whoever was mentioning 'the end' btw, those nico/cale albums are incredible). i like nico in the same way i like david sylvian, in a resolutely non-bodily fluids-involving way.

sometimes its more a question of thinking 'cor i'd like to look like that!'- i saw 'born in flames' a little while ago and that was my reaction anyway. pat place just looks like woah.

just read steve beresford's invisible jukebox in t'wire, and he effectively says he worked with the slits cos he fancied viv albertine! dear oh dear
 

pfflam

Member
There is plenty of style in African American Hip Hop and even in much popular music today . . . it might not be your idea of style but it is style nonetheless . . .

In African American culture the tracksuit-thing has to do with masculinity in a collecive sense: identification with team sports and regionalism --Snoop and The Pitsburgh Steelers (which I, somewhat embarassingly, find completely understandable) but the main thing with all aspects is that every garment and accessory is absolutely NEW and absolutey immaculate . . . its like American Modism . . . .
It is also very much about an alternative to the expensive suit look . . . it too is expensive but has a different set of standards for success . . . in that way it is about differentiation from the white notions of fashion

In that sense it is about money . . . but more so than money it is about the power that money represents for many; power to be able to control your appearance, to be able to have consistently immaculate and also expensive basketball shoes


Also, in the States, Team sports are a means for many African Americans to achieve fame and noteriety etc . . . it wouldn't be too wrong to say that most team-sports -besides the dreadful and very unhip game of baseball - have become, shall I put it too delicately, very desegregated: there is a high percentage of African-Americans to Whites in Basketball and Football. This coupled with the fact that for many American males (of any race) there is no real common ground for basic things like what to say to one another . . . . sports is a handy tessera: every 'man' can tell you about Big Ben Roethslisberger . . . . knowledge and mastery of this common vocabulary provides security . . . but a real dominance of the symbolic extensions of that vocabulary, as expressed in detailed and absolutely up to date clothes and accessories, is a masttery also over a realm defined, in its interests and focus, as very masculine . . . . its sort of an enigma: the focus on the external appearance is dandyish in the same manner as the most fastidious flaneur was, but the symbols cultivated are related to masculinty -the arena of collectively agreed upon masculinity . . . so much so that it is almost absurd . . . a caricature. Very Apollonian

BTW: If there is one place in the States where Style is alive and well (though I tend to think it tends to be not nice to look at) it is the locker rooms of major sports teams . . . where the players show up in the most expensive hand-tailored outfits that are creative and often outrageous . . they try to outdo one another even . . . its pretty funny how the dumb jocks are adopting self-conscious fashion while the Culture industry of the street is (was) adopting sports-fashion self consciously

also, Foucault was quite the stylish man: minimalist in every aspoect of his self-presentation . . . anti-fashion perhaps . . . but that too is a very stylized and even fashionable look . . . he also, simply, looked very cool.
 

owen

Well-known member
i was about to post something derisive about that and then found this on google- point taken!
 

mms

sometimes
puretokyo said:
i just got 'the end', fucking fantastic. nico, cale and eno. its a sonic wet dream if nothing else. i like it a lot better than the marble index. shes something special - i love doom girls.


the first album is a funny one, a folk album with the songs written by all these singers, jackson browne, lou reed, bob dylan, john cale, all these would be lovely songs darkened by her teutonic, gloomy disinterested presence.

as for doom girls there is a whole website dedicated to those girls me and my mates used to call 'alternateenees'when we were grubby yoot, they sponsored alec empire on his last tour and have a bit of a cult following, called www.suicidegirls.com , sort of goth soft porn , they are all ridiculously gorgeous.
 
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captain easychord

Guest
blissblogger said:
the pic of D Double E is weird cos it's bizarrely close up and he's all sweaty

but the couple of times i've seen him in the flesh he's actually really dainty and elegant and looks like he'd be incapable of perspiring

it's true, he's quite small. i'd expected him to be this hulking kind of figure, but he turned out to be small boned, delicate features.
 

k-punk

Spectres of Mark
pfflam said:
There is plenty of style in African American Hip Hop and even in much popular music today . . . it might not be your idea of style but it is style nonetheless . . .

This sounds like the Fashion equivalent of Popism, or Poptimism... There's always style/good records [delte as applicable] if you look for it... Obligatory relativism, it's not for the likes of us to criticize...

In African American culture the tracksuit-thing has to do with masculinity in a collecive sense: identification with team sports and regionalism -

As oposed to white European culture, where sportswear signfiies feminist individualism and internationalism I suppose? What could be worse than 'masculinity in a collective sense'?


It is also very much about an alternative to the expensive suit look . . . it too is expensive but has a different set of standards for success . . . in that way it is about differentiation from the white notions of fashion

Tell that to the white teenagers at my college, who almost all wear sportswear....


Also, in the States, Team sports are a means for many African Americans to achieve fame and noteriety etc . . . it wouldn't be too wrong to say that most team-sports -besides the dreadful and very unhip game of baseball - have become, shall I put it too delicately, very desegregated: there is a high percentage of African-Americans to Whites in Basketball and Football. This coupled with the fact that for many American males (of any race) there is no real common ground for basic things like what to say to one another . . . . sports is a handy tessera: every 'man' can tell you about Big Ben Roethslisberger . . . . knowledge and mastery of this common vocabulary provides security . . . but a real dominance of the symbolic extensions of that vocabulary, as expressed in detailed and absolutely up to date clothes and accessories, is a masttery also over a realm defined, in its interests and focus, as very masculine . . . . its sort of an enigma: the focus on the external appearance is dandyish in the same manner as the most fastidious flaneur was, but the symbols cultivated are related to masculinty -the arena of collectively agreed upon masculinity . . . so much so that it is almost absurd . . . a caricature.

You're just re-stating what I said, but re-evaluating it... I can see nothing positive about masculinity in this utterly conventional sense... being a flaneur-type dandy was a challenge to this conservative version of masculinity as hyper-physicalized 'domination' and 'mastery'... the fact that men devote so much energy and time to tracksuits IS the problem...
 

believekevin

Well-known member
Couple things to remember:

- Jay-Z tells us he is too old for jerseys. It was all button-ups and fancy cufflinks on his aborted tour with R Kelly.

- White T's are HUGE because they cost 2$US and you only wear them once. So when you go out to a club, half the dudes are wearing BLINDINGLY white XL tees. On the real, newness and disregard for thrift is important.
 

jenks

thread death
k-punk said:
being a flaneur-type dandy was a challenge to this conservative version of masculinity as hyper-physicalized 'domination' and 'mastery'... the fact that men devote so much energy and time to tracksuits IS the problem...
i agree it is not about being the same or showing how uch money you've got. so much of this trainer/trackie stuff is about being the same - when my place has a non-uniform day it might as well be called trackie and cap day - that's the uniform!!!
christ i would shake the hand of a flaneur - do such people exist? i used to be chased down the streets cos i had scarves in my hair - sunnyside road in hitchin was poorly named. :eek:
 

mpc

wasteman
Man walks into the bedroom with a sheep under his arm, his wife is lying in bed reading.
Man says, "This is the pig I have sex with when you've got a headache."
Wife replies, "I think you'll find, that is a sheep."
Man replies, "I think you'll find I was talking to the sheep."
 
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simon silverdollar

Guest
mpc said:
Man walks into the bedroom with a sheep under his arm, his wife is lying in bed reading.
Man says, "This is the pig I have sex with when you've got a headache."
Wife replies, "I think you'll find, that is a sheep."
Man replies, "I think you'll find I was talking to the sheep."


what's white and wriggles on the floor?


cum dancing.



(sorry...it's john, he's a bad influence on me...)
 

pfflam

Member
k-punk said:
Hmmm?!? . . . . I didn't know I was arguing with you. I thought I was merely pointing out some observations from my experience.

I would point out that I did say I found it an enigma that an aesthetic that ties itself overtly to male centered big money sports is also very fastidious . . . . but men are like peacocks . . . even though most never seem to want to admit it . . .

As far as white students and sports fashion: I never meant to say that the phenomena I was talking about was exclusive. I will say though, from having lived in five major American urban environments, that there is a very different attitude, generally (not absolutely) towards the care taken in appearing well kempt . . . I've also taught at number of Unis and seen this as well . . . and in each case the White males that adopt the sports-hip-hop aesthetic tend to be slobs.

In the Urban enviroments that I lived in, among the fashionably sportif, it wasn't merely about wearing sports clothing identifiers . . . never just wearing caps and the like . . it was about having absolutely immaculate clothes that were also at the cutting edge of whatever miniscule adjustment to garment cut or pin-stipping was yet to show itself in the mainstream . . . . and these are not wealthy kids, these were not wealthy neighborhoods. Having the ability to look sharp in the latest, cleanest, least used items is a form of showing aptitude, survival skills, power, and, if their eye is keen, a certain je ne sais quoi . . .

Fashion generally is about self-presentation and identification with one group or another, at the basic level of consuming and casual wear . . . succesful use of the right clothes indicates that one is adept, knowing . . . to have mastery of a style and/or to be the originator of style is a kind of power, a kind of power over the other realm of casual consumption of fashion, or just the power to be able to feel at home among groups of supposedly like minded.
This is not real political power . . . but the appearance of power . . . and power is alluring.
Not all forms of power are domination, some are also forms of freedom-from as well . . . or also merely ways to organize the chaos of a life in difficult straights into a manageable fiction . . . and if done very well, a note-worthy looking fiction, one that will get others to try and say the same thing about themselves as well . . .

I'm not putting forth anything earth shattering . . . just kind of thinking outloud based on experience.

As far as seeing nothing positive in 'masculinity in this utterly conventional sense' . . . oh well . . . . I find it a bit sad that many men here in teh States have nothing to say to each other except what they can share about sports . . . and I find it oppressive and stifling . . . and I know that much of the aura of the fascination with sports is based around a collective oppression of femininity in symbolic and real terms: completely idiotic genderization . . .
but, i recently became, to the horror of my friends and colleagues, a sports fan (a particular team even) . . . I am fascinated by it: it is an intricate world full of byzantine trivia and absurd passions and lots of really stupid men caring about the most innane and obscure statistics . . . at the same time there is something, quite simply, great about the games . . . games with very talented athletes struggling their utmost face to face . . . its a beautiful thing . . . men or women (WMBA is very exciting to watch too) . . . . Games have all the makings of the best drama, circumscribed by time limit and a set of rules, grace under pressure, tragedy, conflict, resolution etc . . .

I lived in Pittsburgh for a number of years, when I first got there I was certain that all professional sports were mere opiats, where 'false conciousness' was the norm . . . . what a bunch of pitiful rubes . . . idiot hypermasculine men, or pathetic lonely scrawny guys vicariously feeling their manhood . .. the lot of them are completely The Problem!
What I found, when I got involved and explored the terrain, was that I was right mostly, but I also fell in love with the game . . I also saw that in depressed regions like Pittsburgh it is a real social bond . . . . sure it would be better if they were organizing and self teaching themselves the rhetoric of Deleuzian lines of escape, contemplating the panoptic hegemony of Hienz Field, or recognizing 'le petit object a' as its symbolically passed through the stretched legs of the Center as he snaps to the QB . . . I mean the Phallus . . . 'What pethetic fools sports fans are, complete idiots and all of them who care about any of this stuff are so obviously in complete ignorance of such important stuff,' i thought . . . anyway, I found that there are not only a few radically politicized left-leaning women who also find the games interesting, but also a number of thoughtful men . . . . I also found it fascinating just to watch the rites and rules unfold . . . I occasion a 'fan bar' for the particular team I like even though the team is in another state . . . its amazing to watch such pageantry and absurd solemnity . . . these people really get involved . . .
I guess in England you have extreme fans: the famed 'hooligans' . . . I could see how that would make want to smirk at their idiocy too . . . . but I bet their rituals and their ins-and outs are also interestting if you could find your way in . . . . problem is (and its true here) they can sense an egghead a mile off . . . That is if you don't know have the right look :)


Personally, I like crushed velvet victorian jackets, with loose linen shirts, and here and there a few paisleys . . . or, I should say, when I'm not simply wearing jeans and black t-shirt . . .

oh . . . and before I am deconstructed with clenched teeth and anger, I'm just saying stuff not writing a dissertation . . . long past that and I am not that invested in it either. . . . just thought I'd participate . . .
 

mms

sometimes
the other group male wear that is completley tiresome is the kind of skateboarder look, t shirt, jeans and shoes but from independently owned companies.
so dull at the end of the day.
it all looks baggy and knackered, at least get clothes that fit you and are clean.
 
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