I think having a baby and doing an MA/career change while in my 40s is helping give me a new lease of life. That said, in my late 30s I had a third adolescence (with the participation of some people on this board) and got destroyed a lot, made new friends, acted in a grievously humiliating way over women etc so there aren't any misty eyed memories of a misspent youth with that being so recent (it's better doing that shit in your 30s, you have more money and are - slightly - wiser).
Having said that, the best thing about Cafe Oto is you can appreciate the avant garde while having a nice sit down.