Do you lot have any mates in prison? Do you know what it is like sitting in the waiting room with all those broken lives? I'm not saying you don't. But to talk about feelings. Let's talk about the strains on our lives. I'm not saying mine is the worst. I'm blessed. I'm not saying I carry a heavy load. I don't. But even me, with a light load. I've got a mate doing 22 years. It's a terrible burden on my conscice