Makes it a little easier, I think, that you don't usually use condoms. Because why would you start with someone else? Most women are on the pill anyhow.
are you serious? not to derail, but... woah.
You don't need condoms if you're in a monogamous relationship and you both know you're free of STDs. They feel awful anyway, the only thing worse is actually getting a dose, haha.
Tea and the papers on a Sunday.
No I wasn't.
But even if I had been--do you really think everyone uses condoms? Because they don't. Many people rely on birth control only.
Not me, I wouldn't touch that toxic garbage. I know all the bad things about it that the pharmaceutical companies don't like publicized, since I worked in that field for a while.
But still, many, many women rely only on hormonal birth control or oral contraceptives and don't use condoms.
The upside is someone is going to have a nasty April Fool's this year.
which it sounded like you were saying was a rationale for NOT using condoms when one has sex with one of those women (or men who doesn't use'em).. I guess I misunderstood. because that (the fact that they don't use condoms) is a pretty good argument for USING condoms with them, especially if you are having sex with one OUTSIDE of your monogamous relationship. I missed the logic for how leaving yourself unprotected against HIV in a relationship with long-term commitment, monogamy, and shared trust is the same logic for leaving yourself unprotected against HIV with someone without those things. but anyway..
if people think being in a long term relationship is a cast iron guarantee of not getting an STD, i'd suggest thats a rather naive view in light of human nature. i'm not saying everybody in a relationship is going to screw round, but it's a common enough occurrence not to rely on total fidelity in terms of contraceptives and protection.
unfortunately condoms are a fact of life - i don't like them very much and to be honest they make sex much less pleasurable, but its a fact of life. i'd rather forgoe some pleasure than have to spend hours sat in a vd clinic with all kinds of weirdos, or even end up dead, simple as that.
if people think being in a long term relationship is a cast iron guarantee of not getting an STD, i'd suggest thats a rather naive view in light of human nature. i'm not saying everybody in a relationship is going to screw round, but it's a common enough occurrence not to rely on total fidelity in terms of contraceptives and protection.
which it sounded like you were saying was a rationale for NOT using condoms when one has sex with one of those women (or men who doesn't use'em).. I guess I misunderstood. because that (the fact that they don't use condoms) is a pretty good argument for USING condoms with them, especially if you are having sex with one OUTSIDE of your monogamous relationship. I missed the logic for how leaving yourself unprotected against HIV in a relationship with long-term commitment, monogamy, and shared trust is the same logic for leaving yourself unprotected against HIV with someone without those things. but anyway..
back to the blessings:
finding really quality chocolate chip cookie in Kingston Jamaica, with no ganja involved.
if people think being in a long term relationship is a cast iron guarantee of not getting an STD, i'd suggest thats a rather naive view in light of human nature. i'm not saying everybody in a relationship is going to screw round, but it's a common enough occurrence not to rely on total fidelity in terms of contraceptives and protection.
unfortunately condoms are a fact of life - i don't like them very much and to be honest they make sex much less pleasurable, but its a fact of life. i'd rather forgoe some pleasure than have to spend hours sat in a vd clinic with all kinds of weirdos, or even end up dead, simple as that.
People do not always live up to my ideals, unfortunately