peter, i've got good monitors and a decent studio set up. if yre on a lappy, come over to mine and you can see what the difference is. it's def all about a combination of good monitors and good acoustic treatment.
funny thing is, that said, im shopping for shit monitors to hear how my mixes sound to the rest of the world...
word, i am on a laptop and will def take you up on that offer...
aren't you supposed to buy those yamahas everyone has for the perfect flat flat shitty response?