owning your web presence/history?

Pestario

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I can't remember, does dissensus have a terms of use agreement? Wouldn't that say that anything posted is subject to the moderators or something - basically you agree that you are participating in a public arena?
 

UFO over easy

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slothrop said:
And it gives the place a weirdly Kafkaesque feel at times...

lol.. well do you remember when one of the moderators on dubstepforum posted as the omnipotent, omnipresent dystopian figure of THE MODERATOR, referred to himself in the third person, and was generally attempting to portray himself as a benevolent inhuman presence? Unintentionally Orwellian, and completely hilarious :D

It's to the credit of dubstepforum that this was pointed out as being totally ridiculous and patronising by more or less the entire user base at the time, and THE MODERATOR ceased to exist.
 
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john eden

male pale and stale
I can't remember, does dissensus have a terms of use agreement? Wouldn't that say that anything posted is subject to the moderators or something - basically you agree that you are participating in a public arena?

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Jaie Miller

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In the light of a few recent developments, which led to someone wanting their entire history of participation removed from the board... I'm struck by what an interesting idea that is.

I understand removing your current presence. But removing your past presence, that's something else again.

I'm curious what people think of the idea (NOT OF THE INDIVIDUAL WHO CHOSE THIS) - what rights do you have or want to have over your web presence in various forms?

Especially things like this - voluntary participation in group discussion?

I'm curious because I think in genuine interpersonal exchange, the whole is more than the sum of the parts, but also that means removal of the part (i.e. one voice) after the fact kind of destroys the whole. In some cases, that's a shame (it depends on how valuable you think the whole/discussion is)

I realized that I just assumed if I didn't like participating in dissensus any more (enough to quit), it would not have occurred to me to try to remove my past posts. Then again, I did go through an old weblog/online journal and make "friends-only" a lot of my more explicit posts I wrote 10 years ago when the Web was smaller and less searchable.

What about y'all? if you decided you wanted to leave, would you take your past with you? would it be different for a blog than for a board?

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ripley

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I don't think the fact that it's all public is really something that factors into peoples actions on the web -

Yeah, I used to want to come up with a name for this concept - the number of people you are capable of imagining reading/watching you online. I think there's an ingrained limit on our imaginations. I can imagine a few people writing, but mostly I have to imagine specific people in order to really keep the concept of being watched foremost. MOst of the time the audience either drops out or collapses into a manageable mental number

It just becomes a problem, and rather embarassing, when who you really are changes daily, and you're confronted regularly with an outdated model of yourself which you can't alter. The lack of control over which model of yourself others are exposed to is the thing that gets me.
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I agree, but I also feel slightly different about that control depending on what you're talking about. I think criminal, job-related, or insurance-related judgments should be prevented, but social judgments.. It's hard, because we are judged on lots of things we can't control. THis may be a new set (our past acts online), but is it really so different?

Maybe our mental models of people will have to be historicized. Or maybe that's not possible?
 

UFO over easy

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I agree, but I also feel slightly different about that control depending on what you're talking about. I think criminal, job-related, or insurance-related judgments should be prevented, but social judgments.. It's hard, because we are judged on lots of things we can't control. THis may be a new set (our past acts online), but is it really so different?

yeah I see what you mean.. maybe the difference is that in the case of people making social judgements about you based on an archived form of yourself, even if you don't have control over that archive now, you did at some point or other. In real life obviously people do make judgements based on past actions too, but generally for someone to make a negative character judgement based on a past action that they never saw at the time, that action would have to be pretty serious in order for it to take precedence over how they see you in the present.

On the internet, you read something incredibly petty that someone wrote a year ago, and make a judgement about who they are in the present based on that, whereas in real life if it really was that petty, a year later in would be totally forgotten about, and certainly wouldn't affect any social judgement of your present self.

I think ideally we could compensate for this somehow, but at the moment I don't think people are generally aware enough of the implicit social differences between real and virtual..

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elgato

I just dont know
From my own experience I reckon people really do treat the internet as an outlet for who they imagine themselves to be truly, without social constraint, and maybe that develops slowly into the exaggerated personas you find on message boards and blogs.

I don't think the fact that it's all public is really something that factors into peoples actions on the web - it may even lead them to exaggerate their personalities more if anything.. like screaming who you really are off the rooftops to anyone that'll listen

Something which I increasingly feel a tendency towards is misinformation, and misrepresentation (something I have seen develop in particular on facebook). The trend towards this massive availability of personal information and personal representation (and our strong tendency towards fora of which this very public surrender is an integral part) stokes something which not only wants to retain some kind of restricted understanding, but wants to subvert these means of understanding. Ultimately I do not want places like the public realm of facebook to be a place where someone can feel comfortable making judgements, and if they do then I want those judgements to be misinformed, although I don’t know what that says about me. Also I think that there are significant implications for what I am saying created by me articulating it somewhere as public as this. But consciously at least the reason I engage with and read dissensus is to gain the insight of people with interesting and different minds on issues I want to better understand, not because I want to broadcast myself.

I also don’t think that necessarily who someone ‘really’ is comes across at all in online discourse, especially in the form of forums, blogs etc… firstly text is an incredibly impersonal form of communication, and I for one struggle to assert any real personality over it. But also I think that people use online space to explore possibilities of being someone they feel that they are not. But then how do we define who someone ‘really’ is in any case…
 

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I was using the really thing to be more like who they'd really like to be I guess.

elgato said:
Also I think that there are significant implications for what I am saying created by me articulating it somewhere as public as this. But consciously at least the reason I engage with and read dissensus is to gain the insight of people with interesting and different minds on issues I want to better understand, not because I want to broadcast myself.

I think at some point or other I was desperate to broadcast myself. It's very likely anyway, although at this point where doing stuff like this has become just an everyday habit more than anything else it's quite difficult to tell.
 

elgato

I just dont know
yeh to be fair i got drawn into posting rather than reading by being so incensed by various things being said that i felt compulsed to respond, so that probably is about broadcasting myself, or at least my thoughts. and that still plays a part elsewhere. but my relationship with dissensus is definitely distinct from elsewhere on the web
 

john eden

male pale and stale
I'm very interested in the misinformation angle. It's perhaps the opposite of what wikipedia is trying to achieve.
 

IdleRich

IdleRich
"...although at this point where doing stuff like this has become just an everyday habit more than anything else it's quite difficult to tell."
I think that that's an important point, my guess is that once something becomes habitual people tend to slip back to being themselves. I suspect that even if it's not difficult to maintain a persona constantly boredom is likely to set in and the norm reassert itself.

"But then how do we define who someone ‘really’ is in any case…"
Also very important obviously, the only way we can judge someone really is on how they behave and presumably someone could deliberately perform contrary to their personality in actual interactions with people (although obviously it's harder than when separated by the internet).
 

elgato

I just dont know
I'm very interested in the misinformation angle. It's perhaps the opposite of what wikipedia is trying to achieve.

kind of yeh, if applied in a different area. i was thinking more in terms of personal information and profiling though
 

UFO over easy

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there's a nice tension between people for whom the net is more 'real' than others as well, especially on forums, where sometimes it feels like a battle - eg trolls trying to draw people into sharing some ridiculous virtual unreality

idlerich said:
I suspect that even if it's not difficult to maintain a persona constantly boredom is likely to set in and the norm reassert itself.

that's what I tend to think as well :) it's still problematic though - although whilst people tell me I am fairly similar on the net and in person I don't think the net gives a particularly accurate picture even if I am attempting to get one across.
 
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IdleRich

IdleRich
I think that what I'm assuming is that the more you go on a board the more normal it becomes to you and the temptation to pretend decreases just as the effort necessary to maintain a facade would increase.

"it's still problematic though - although whilst people tell me I am fairly similar on the net and in person I don't think the net gives a particularly accurate picture even if I am attempting to get one across"
I feel that on this board my lack of linguistic dexterity and lightness of touch means that I come across as slightly more stiff than I do in real life but I also think that I come across as quite similar in a way although that sounds like a contradiction. I've got a feeling that that's something like what you're saying isn't it?
 

ripley

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I think that what I'm assuming is that the more you go on a board the more normal it becomes to you and the temptation to pretend decreases just as the effort necessary to maintain a facade would increase.

I sometimes think engaging with people online is helpful because it's another way to perform yourself or certain aspects of yourself. In a way, I think of my self as something that meaningfully exists through how I relate to other people. (not that I don't exist alone, but that all the stories I tell myself about what kind of person I am aren't really meaningful unless they are acted on).

So I get to practice, in online settings.. (in the sense partly that it's a "practice run" because people are probably not as emotionally engaged as they would be IRL and partly that I am "practicing" what I preach)

I think what you do in relation to others online is clearly part of who you are, whether you are conscious of it or not. How it's the same or different from interacting with other people is what's fascinating - what do I make of the signals I can read form others, and how do I make myself read?
 

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