luka
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You're more liberated than me and Barty so this doesn't surprise me.
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You're more liberated than me and Barty so this doesn't surprise me.
Corpsey
bandz ahoy
Most of my unhappiness stems from having low/no self esteem, I think. Both in what it stops me from actually DOING and what it makes me THINK about. (It makes me think about all the stuff I'm not doing.)
Is this chemical? Perhaps. It's obvious that when I get drunk or pilled up my self-esteem goes through the roof. (At first - with drink it can go right through the floor, too.)
Is this chemical? Perhaps. It's obvious that when I get drunk or pilled up my self-esteem goes through the roof. (At first - with drink it can go right through the floor, too.)
Corpsey
bandz ahoy
Not really, I was sort of dragged there (no pun intended, because there were drag queens there). Me and my dowdily straight mates were just sat in the corner feeling uncomfortable giggling and smirking to get rid of the anxiety.
baboon2004
Darned cockwombles.
Having been to many gay clubs, I can assure you that the music varies just as it does in 'straight' clubs! Sometimes amazing, sometimes shit.
What were you anxious about?
sadmanbarty
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getting bummed
Mr. Tea
Let's Talk About Ceps
Trying to work out whether this is a typo or not.
Edit: annoyed at the bumming reference in the post just above mine.
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baboon2004
Darned cockwombles.
But seriously? I can't believe you lot can't conceive of going to a gay club, it's hilarious. The final frontier...
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luka
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It's obvious what he was anxious about isn't it. Youre going into a different world with different rules and you feel out of place and square and like a big grey pudgy sausage and you think everyone will notice and laugh at you for your shit clothes and your painfully inhibited body language and your palpable fear of being bummed.
baboon2004
Darned cockwombles.
Which is all part of a ludicrous straight fantasy
luka
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Only from a rational standpoint.
pattycakes_
Can turn naughty
Can't tell how serious luka's being
pattycakes_
Can turn naughty
Gays know how to party better than straight people
mistersloane
heavy heavy monster sound
It's all true though. Many a het has never, ever come out of a gay club upon entering, for he was swallowed, whole, and digested, for food.
luka
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See. Told you.
baboon2004
Darned cockwombles.
@the first day of school comment: not true, only people who've never been to a place where they're in the minority
luka
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Well both me and Barty have been in lots of situations where we are the minority so this argument I'm afraid we will have to reject.
baboon2004
Darned cockwombles.
and you were anxious about it?
There's a specific fear about sexuality going on here too, to point out the obvious - what if you (in the general sense) were to find men attractive, what then?!
There's a specific fear about sexuality going on here too, to point out the obvious - what if you (in the general sense) were to find men attractive, what then?!
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