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nomadologist
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Aren't we all? It sucks. I can't tell you what to do about it, though. I'm the biggest retard on the planet when it comes to this.
Yes fair enough but didn't you say your ideal sexual encounter is one where you pretend to be totally frigid!?
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nomadologist
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Swears is a sadist, nice!
I wish I had to "pretend" more often...it sucks to be a girl sometimes you just can't muster up the energy to care about getting laid...
I wish I had to "pretend" more often...it sucks to be a girl sometimes you just can't muster up the energy to care about getting laid...
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nomadologist
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You know what would work?
If Swears fucked this girl really well then didn't call her ever. That always works.
If Swears fucked this girl really well then didn't call her ever. That always works.
swears
preppy-kei
Sort of...more like totally bored on the surface but burning up inside. That's more of an emotional buzz though.
Well in that case it would surely be better if they liked you and you didn't like them, or at least, the relationship assymetry was markedly in your favour...? Or would that just make you feel like a bit of a shit?
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nomadologist
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I did this to my current bf for literally a year before I even acknowledged his presence
He would show up wherever I was, and I would be like "hey what's your name again?" Once we even rolled in this big group and we all fell asleep in the same bed, and he walked me home later and was like "yeah i really don't want to be alone right now." And I was like "really? I do."Boy that was fun.
I did this to my current bf for literally a year before I even acknowledged his presence
Boy that was fun.
nice.
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nomadologist
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I told you, Swears is me like 10 years ago, right before the substance abuse started.
swears
preppy-kei
Well in that case it would surely be better if they liked you and you didn't like them, or at least, the relationship assymetry was markedly in your favour...? Or would that just make you feel like a bit of a shit?
I would feel like a shit if these girls were head over heels for me, but this isn't the case, lol. They're usually "seeing" other fellas, and are a bit sadistic themselves, if I met someone I was crazy for, all this arsing around would stop.
I would feel like a shit if these girls were head over heels for me, but this isn't the case, lol. They're usually "seeing" other fellas, and are a bit sadistic themselves, if I met someone I was crazy for, all this arsing around would stop.
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nomadologist
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Ok, this is a conversation I've had with a lot of people, and I've noticed that in general, guys know they like someone instantly, or close to it.
It can take me a while to come around.
It can take me a while to come around.
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nomadologist
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If this is the case, then Plan B (make her jealous) is in order. Amirite?
I can "come around" to friends over time, but you are correct- usually one conversation or even one eye contact is enough...
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nomadologist
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Men have it pretty easy in some ways--it's so uncomplicated what they want in general. I wish I even knew what I wanted.
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nomadologist
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Ok Swears I know what you should do:
Start telling this girl that you're in such a spot because this other girl you had a "thing" with (be vague) keeps trying to get back in touch, and you're so conflicted. Pretend to ask her for female advice--tell her you don't want this old flame to get the wrong impression, but you would really like to be friends again.
Then after a while, get some other girl to come to dinner with both of you. Tell this girl that your current date really wants to meet her. Tell current date that you need someone to come with you because otherwise it will be so awkward!!
Then mercilessly flirt with the old flame through the entire meal.
You can pay me for this idea later, after the new date get possessive and throws herself at you.
Start telling this girl that you're in such a spot because this other girl you had a "thing" with (be vague) keeps trying to get back in touch, and you're so conflicted. Pretend to ask her for female advice--tell her you don't want this old flame to get the wrong impression, but you would really like to be friends again.
Then after a while, get some other girl to come to dinner with both of you. Tell this girl that your current date really wants to meet her. Tell current date that you need someone to come with you because otherwise it will be so awkward!!
Then mercilessly flirt with the old flame through the entire meal.
You can pay me for this idea later, after the new date get possessive and throws herself at you.
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nomadologist
Guest
Come on, it would be so much fun! You have no idea how fun that would be.
Hahaha- so manipulative.
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nomadologist
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If you're going to learn sadism, you should learn from the pros