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i think love is about *giving* as much as taking. and most people dont know how to give anymore.

think that was the main problem i had with the love as canibalism thing.

i am sure of one thing: real love makes you fee *more* yourself, allows you to be more you, gives you more freedom. supposed to anyway.
 
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I just realized Fiona Apple looks just like my mom, but with less green skin. Now I know why I hate her so much.

j/k
 
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zhao said:
i think love is about *giving* as much as taking. and most people dont know how to give anymore.

think that was the main problem i had with the love as canibalism thing.

i am sure of one thing: real love makes you fee *more* yourself, allows you to be more you, gives you more freedom. supposed to anyway.
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Yeah, but Zhao, you get eaten alive too, see?
 
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zhao said:
i am sure of one thing: real love makes you fee *more* yourself, allows you to be more you, gives you more freedom. supposed to anyway.
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Sort of like the idea of having perfect freedom by submitting 100% to virtue/God/etc -- wasn't this some Greek dude? Anyway, I thinks I likes it....
 
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No, every person I've ever loved has made me lose any sense of who I was or wanted to be, I'd wake up several years later and think "jesus, i have to pay mover, wtf am i going to do? eehh stay here. his parents have a shitload of money."
 
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nomadologist said:
Yeah, but Zhao, you get eaten alive too, see?
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see what? what am i lookin at?

nomadologist said:
No, every person I've ever loved has made me lose any sense of who I was or wanted to be, I'd wake up several years later and think "jesus, i have to pay mover, wtf am i going to do? eehh stay here. his parents have a shitload of money."
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i'm no expert by any means but i think, and please don't take this badly, that you have been in not love, but co-dependence.
 
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nomadologist said:
Back to the topic: Anyone ever fall in love with several people at once?
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Yes, not at like the exact same time, but simultaneously. Ah, to be 17 again... Sinatra was right, it was a very good year.... for innocent French exchange students.
 
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there are no accidents
Gavin said:
Sort of like the idea of having perfect freedom by submitting 100% to virtue/God/etc -- wasn't this some Greek dude? Anyway, I thinks I likes it....
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no you LOVE it.

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Lately the Misc forums are like a totally awesome party
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and you LOVE this too.

it is the bastard LOVE child of a bunch of over educated (except me) misfits who likes to procrastinate.
 
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Dunno about the Euros, but Hallmark killed love off for the U.S. back in the '80s. It'd been on life support due to drug overdoses in the 60s and 70s though...
 
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thanks dr. zhao, i never thought of that! love and codependence are not the same thing, but they're not mutually exclusive.

no, it's very simple. i don't procastinate, i just don't do anything.
 
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Gavin said:
Yes, not at like the exact same time, but simultaneously. Ah, to be 17 again... Sinatra was right, it was a very good year.... for innocent French exchange students.
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aww this is cute
 
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It'll be hysterical when I get Fs in my classes.

I think I'm going for the "medical leave" option this semester. Whatever I have to do not to give my loans back ($18,000)
 
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The thing is, people in functional relationships are so boring. Like my boyfriend's parents. They don't even really talk much, they just "communicate" and do everything right. It really weirds me out. They don't yell, they don't have emotions as far as I can tell, they do their own thing most of the time, and they never, ever demean one another.

Where is the fucking fun in that?
 
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