shes so hot i wish this was play misty for me situationShe sounds alright from what little I've heard about her. I don't get the impression he's in a Play Misty for Me situation.
this is so far most important to me advice ive gotten... after a lot of thinking it does frustrate me to be told that she doesnt want to hurt me and that im kinda too perfect or whatever, its ok to want to wait, maybe i asked too early or caught her off guard, but still......If she’s that attractive and the action’s good, get it while you can. I’m sure she’s sweet but mind your emotional investment level. None of us are perfect, but with those kind of statements, she’s confused about what’s desirable in human relationships and being simply rude and somewhat manipulative where she thinks she’s being open and honest. Not out of malice I’d assume, just immaturity. If she was just saying plainly, “I don’t want a relationship with you,” “I don’t have those kinds of feelings,” “I’m not looking to take this that far” etc., I would still say, abandon all hope for any such prospect, but that its not entirely impossible or undesirable. But she’s revealing herself as unworthy of your soul. Nothing wrong with hittin that, though, or soaking up whatever comfort and validation you’re receiving. Just start doing your best to accept she’s not capable of bringing real light and peace to your life. That person or the closest approximation is still out there and until you meet focus on yourself and your most genuine interests and be your own most solid foundation. Or let “God” be that or whatever.
hurts me to say u are prob right.... its just idk what my options are besides just waiting it out and continuing to do what weve been doing, and then maybe she'll come around.... I must value and prioritize myself i think....I would still say, abandon all hope for any such prospect, but that its not entirely impossible or undesirable. But she’s revealing herself as unworthy of your soul
i just dont understand why shes so caring and affectionate towards me while also being scared offJust start doing your best to accept she’s not capable of bringing real light and peace to your life
Just like how our grandparents did 'courting', which fits with Gus's 'trad' thing.Get Gus to teach you how to do hypnosis and brew your own pheromone cologne and how to bio hack the female endocrine system with a subtle series of clicks and weaponized body language and posture
yea but i thought thats what you were telling me... i shouldve listened to version.... but this is what im going to tell her tonight to smooth things overI think you just tried to escalate too fast
tell us about the action. describe it with an eye for what Pound would call "the luminous detail"
thru the app yes. weve met like 8 times or so over the last 3-4 weeks, and pretty much get it on everytime. she cooks for me and comes up with recipes that go well with my stomach problems, so caring. a big thing too is that she is the talker, i have been with women where i have to be the talker and talk a lot but this girl talks a lot and i get to listen which is nice. we went to karaoke with her friends and after she told me i got the thumbs up from her friends... all of this had me feeling on top of the world with me, and i had the confidence to ask her to go to nyc for the day with me. she initially agreed, but when i checked back in with her about it the next day she backed out, i wasnt too stuntedd by it because she had valid reasons (work burnout and more travel coming up), but i did feel frustrated because i thought itd be a good time..... i still felt confident and on top of the world enough to try and bring up intentions and be my girlfriend but obviously it was not executed articulatly or intelligently so now we are here..... seeing her tonight i think and going to tell her that i shouldnt have brought it up too fast.... but im feeling generally more mentally strong and prepared....tell us the beginning kid, how did you meet her? is this someone you met through tinder? or is this your sisters best friend who you have known for years?
In some cultures this means you're now legally married.i forgot also, she did a mini painting of clint eastwood for me
I don't think I said ask her to be your girlfriend I said just tell her how you feel!yea but i thought thats what you were telling me... i shouldve listened to version.... but this is what im going to tell her tonight to smooth things over
I don't think I said ask her to be your girlfriend I said just tell her how you feel!
I can pull up the receipts but I'm pretty sure I downplayed the girlfriend bit the whole time. I just said you gotta check in with how she's feeling and also bring up all these weird things she's saying that make you feel badYou knew how he felt was that he wanted her to be his girlfriend though.
... and also bring up all these weird things she's saying that make you feel bad
u and version are both right.... main point is my exectution was terrible.... i feel more preparedd for tonight thoI can pull up the receipts but I'm pretty sure I downplayed the girlfriend bit the whole time. I just said you gotta check in with how she's feeling and also bring up all these weird things she's saying that make you feel bad
u and version are both right.... main point is my exectution was terrible.... i feel more preparedd for tonight tho