Q: I have not done anything great with my life. I have never travelled, don’t have a car or own a home. I couldn’t afford to go to college. I do not have friends and my sex life is nonexistent. I read, but I am not a “serious” reader. I listen to music, but I do not know anything about it. I am not mastering any discipline. I am not getting good at anything.
A: Insufficient approval can give you a desire to prove yourself, a longing to show those who never believed in you that you can achieve things.