it goes without saying that i dont mean any disrespect, or to sound ungrateful (given that this is his/your forum!). apologies if thats how i come across...
it would seem a fairly simple matter of explanation though, we are all (at least endeavouring to be) open-minded people! not to say that anyone is 'owed' an explanation of course. i dont know, im just quite confused
anyway, mountain of a molehill etc