So I got an equivalent app a few days ago called jackd and it's surprisingly ok.
Admittedly I do get guys who are older than my Dad (and objectively less attractive) messaging slightly creepy compliments, and also the guys 5000 miles away with swimming pools who send a picture of their dick by way of introduction, presumably with the eventual aim of using me to traffic coke across the atlantic (idk), but overall there's some surprisingly normal ppl on there to chat to.
Another amusing thing is the guys who put something along the lines of "if you're going to message me at least be able to hold a conversation". Now that I have read that I definitely do not want to have a conversation with you.