as a cheap bastard, I guess I'm a quasi-digger: I've always enjoyed flipping through stacks of used records, but I'm only interested in paying $1 or 2 each (MAYBE up to $5 for something great). I have zero interest in looking through records shop where they have amazing stuff but it's at collector's prices. an old Marshall Jefferson 12" on trax is an awesome find for $1, but of no interest when it's $25.
The prices in shops now are ridiculous. Particularly the 'curated', minimally designed record shops, but across the board. when did $30 become a normal price for a record? it's not based on supply and demand with specific records, it's like a generalized mark-up - like the whole of the format now has a surcharge levied on it or something.
I went to one of those audio-deluxe listening bars in LA, a friend had a release party for his record. i couldn't say I noticed a huge leap in sound quality, but then again people were chit-chatting so it wasn't necessarily the fully-focused listen to bring out the details. The drink prices were painful and the overall vibe of the decor was tasteful but luxuriant, the finest of everything, a gentlemen's club vibe almost. Lots of wood.
Serious audiophiles are an odd lot, the ones I've met tended to have poor taste in music. One guy next to me at a wedding had a whole barn or outbuilding set aside for his stereo system which had cost something like 50 thousand bucks (this back in the early 90s). Another was my landlady in Streaham, a Norman Tebbit fan and owner of a Rega Planar turntable - she said derisively of the sounds produced out of my sad little audio set up in the lodger's room upstairs: 'I don't even consider that to be 'music'". But her actual records - i think she had about six in total and they were all things like Paul Young No Parlez.
Conversely people I've met who live for music and have amazing taste, often have really shitty playbacks. Rock critics on the whole seemed to have crappy little music centres, they'd tape something for me and it was really poor sound quality. I guess the focus of the passion was amount and range of music acquired, rather than the quality of reproduction.