we wernt trying to have sex with them we were trying to give them £60 for two glasses of orange winenot grotesque. actually they might be more accurate in thinking that we're grotesque. it's really unusual to have so few rules or so little social pressure when it comes to sex. or what it's acceptable to say and do etc. not surprising that people want to draw some tighter boundaries.
they were probably treating you with contempt because you were spending 30 quid on a glass of winewe wernt trying to have sex with them we were trying to give them £60 for two glasses of orange wine