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nomadologist

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That's not what I'm saying...they could...never met any though.
 

zhao

there are no accidents
ever have a friend give you a CD by a band you didn't know existed and after getting into it you all of a sudden notice their name everywhere?
 
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anyway, back to sex.

truth or dare?

truth.

when/where was the best sex you ever had?
 

Gavin

booty bass intellectual
when/where was the best sex you ever had?

Not as easy a question as it seems though... so much of sex is retroactive romanticization... Maybe my own neuroses, but sex always seems deferred, to resonate in the past differently than it does in the moment... I think about past times pretty often but I am never sure I experienced the "great times" as great in the moment.

That said, possible candidate: age 17 in my girlfriend's bedroom the first time we both got high and had sex.

Ach I hate talking about my sex life :eek:
 
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Well, I asked because it's a tough question. And you make a good point. What's interesting is I don't really tend to remember a lot of detail during, mostly I remember how I felt after. Then I remember weird little snippets of some sort of touching that was exceptionally pleasant, but it's always a visual memory sort of like the way sex is visually portrayed in films, where it looks like it was taken by a camera from a very selective angle that looks nothing like what I could have literally been seeing at the time.
 

mistersloane

heavy heavy monster sound
In fact, alot, alot of U.S. men given great head, I dunno what that's about.

The weird thing about my nephew calling the Strokes gay was that he actually liked them, but didn't like liking them because they were so obviously gay, but not in that homo way. I only wrote all that so i could cross-thread, which is a first for me.
 

zhao

there are no accidents
well the best of the best times probably don't make very good stories... but all night in the park in Lujbijana was pretty amazing. i didn't bring a blanket or anything and the grass was wet so we did it on top of this wooden children's playground thing, like, with swings and stuff. our knees were sore and we had to come up with some pretty creative positions but it was intense and exhilarating... 4 hours and a thousand plateaus...

also on the hill by the Observatory in Los Angeles overlooking a clear, smogless city, on the first sunny day after a (strange) month of rain. she was getting on a plane the next day. and the sun was spectacularly setting... goodbye sex can be great, huh? but followed by sadness... and now a year later all those hills look like a grave yard with the recent fire.

oh and i can not recommend enough the album Sex by the Necks. best. soundtrack. ever.

light the candles and put that thing on repeat...
 

Gavin

booty bass intellectual
In fact, alot, alot of U.S. men given great head, I dunno what that's about.

The weird thing about my nephew calling the Strokes gay was that he actually liked them, but didn't like liking them because they were so obviously gay, but not in that homo way. I only wrote all that so i could cross-thread, which is a first for me.

Dissensus needs rhizomatically-structured message board software.
 
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So the most memorable semi-visually-fictious miniclip of sex I can recall was with my boyfriend for the first time and he pushed my legs back and very gently felt my legs from my ankles down to my hips, as if he'd been waiting to do that his whole life. I remember it feeling a lot like getting electrocuted.

"Dear Penthouse Forum,"

Love,
Nomadologist
 

mistersloane

heavy heavy monster sound
Well, I asked because it's a tough question. And you make a good point. What's interesting is I don't really tend to remember a lot of detail during, mostly I remember how I felt after. Then I remember weird little snippets of some sort of touching that was exceptionally pleasant, but it's always a visual memory sort of like the way sex is visually portrayed in films, where it looks like it was taken by a camera from a very selective angle that looks nothing like what I could have literally been seeing at the time.

I think that's precisely where and why pornography is so strong, because it's where visual memory and desire meet, and when done well, it corresponds actually with how we perceive sexual memory. Hence the desire and ability to now create our own porn, of ourselves, by ourselves, now dominating how to become famous - i.e the impossibilty of becoming truly famous without a sex tape.
 
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In fact, alot, alot of U.S. men given great head, I dunno what that's about.

The weird thing about my nephew calling the Strokes gay was that he actually liked them, but didn't like liking them because they were so obviously gay, but not in that homo way. I only wrote all that so i could cross-thread, which is a first for me.

Mamas boys have oral fixations?

Ha, Gavin, my grad school rec was from Michael Joyce who developed that hypertext literature software...let me dig it up...

We should all write a collaborate hypertext novel with it.
 
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nomadologist

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I think that's precisely where and why pornography is so strong, because it's where visual memory and desire meet, and when done well, it corresponds actually with how we perceive sexual memory. Hence the desire and ability to now create our own porn, of ourselves, by ourselves, now dominating how to become famous - i.e the impossibilty of becoming truly famous without a sex tape.

EXACTLy.

My cell phone takes video clips but everyone does amateur cell phone porn these days.
 

zhao

there are no accidents
funny i remember my experiences vividly. probably because i turn on the mental (well and sometimes actual :rolleyes:) video recorder...

very visual person. turning off light not an option. (unless it's sleepy half awaKE sex)
 
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nomadologist

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i've never understood turning off the light unless it's already off.

i'm not a very visual person at all. in fact, i remember noises a lot better. i think that's why i'm sensitive to noise and i don't like noisy sex--i like the subtlety of those deep gasps guys make. and the exhaling.

strangest sex memories: sex on acid.

worst sex memories: sex on e.
 

Gavin

booty bass intellectual
funny i remember my experiences vividly. probably because i turn on the mental (well and sometimes actual :rolleyes:) video recorder...

very visual person. turning off light not an option. (unless it's sleepy half awaKE sex)

I take it all the playgrounds and public parks you've sullied are well lit then?
 
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