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the $18000 is for one semester
i was going to pay some of it off, but i didn't end up bothering
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Love means getting the girl while you forever lose her:
Marriage means losing the girl while forever getting her:
Time to head to my local gin joint ...
[I think we've been radically misrepresenting both Badiou and Lacan hereabouts, but first to the gin palace].
Marriage means losing the girl while forever getting her:
Time to head to my local gin joint ...
[I think we've been radically misrepresenting both Badiou and Lacan hereabouts, but first to the gin palace].
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No HMLT I read Lacan say this in an interview! I will find it...
that doesn't necessarily sound like a "healthy" relationship either. there are loads of repressively peaceful and "functional" relationships of convenience, not love.
most people get married because of every other factor except love. because of money, "good upbringings", "the right situation". all the practical shit.
if i have to choose between this and co-dependence give me the latter any fuckin day.
but i will continue striving for the real thing though.
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Gavin
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Yah, this is something to chew on.
Theorists on love always makes me feel slightly embarrassed. For them I mean.
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hahaha
love is watching someone steal a jeep and not intervening--not to give the jeep back, but to make sure this person doesn't kill himself
that was another guy i had a longstanding thing with, not my boyfriend
PS never get a jeep, ever. they have a flaw in the sealant around the windows. you can take a lighter and melt em down then push the window down. they are well known for being the easiest car to steal
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what is "the real thing"?
ok i shut up now
the "real thing" is what i described earlier:
and i know it is possible. i've experienced this... twice. admittedly in limited temporal durations. but the possibility is there, and i just have to get better at it. which involves working on myself, overcoming my own issues and problems. and if the other person also does this...
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uh huh
mistersloane
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I didn't know that one. I had an moment a while back when a mate of a mate had locked himself out of his car, and I got a coathanger and opened it, and then *embarrassed* I'm going 'erm, never done that before, must have a knack or something' :S.
My mum taught me how to pick locks, she was brilliant at it.
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hahahhahaha hahahah.
something else you can do if you get locked out of a car is call home on your cell phone. if the keys are at home someone can play the frequency of the auto-unlock through a phone and it'll open the door.
or you can break into an autodealership and record all of the signal frequencies from different car brands.
i promise i have never done this.
i see i've hit the limits of tolerable sincerity here. ok back to safe ironic distance
mistersloane
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I've always wondered about that, are all the frequencies the same? On old cars it used to be that all the keys for the cars were the same, so it was apparently a doddle. There should be a c r i m e thread really, I gotta sleep tho.
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Zhao, the problem with that way of thinking is that you'd have to be 100% psychologically healthy (both parties) for this to be even close to feasible without intensive couples therapy (and even then, the chances are slim).
I'm a fatally flawed human being. I have watched too many people I love die before they hit 30 to not love someone just because Bob Newhart would say it's unhealthy. I really just don't have time for that way of thinking.
Being a human is basically learning to live with your own particular dysfunctions, and as any psychologist will explain, we all have em.
I'm a fatally flawed human being. I have watched too many people I love die before they hit 30 to not love someone just because Bob Newhart would say it's unhealthy. I really just don't have time for that way of thinking.
Being a human is basically learning to live with your own particular dysfunctions, and as any psychologist will explain, we all have em.
When you've finished with the gin kindly explain what the fuck Badiou is on about with love.
Thanks!
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Between what I learned from my family, and what I've learned in Brooklyn, I could teach one of those Learning Annex classes on how to rob people blind.
yes but lets wait until people are spent/overdosed/divorced or it might be too much. or not