How do you "pull" girls etc?

[0bleak]

There is a short story, I think maybe by Milan Kundera, the gist of it is the main guy is a bit (in fact a lot) of a shagger who knows loads of famous beautiful women. Then for some reason he has to spend some time at a sanatorium or something and he tries it on with all the hot nurses expecting to get laid as normal- but to his horror they all reject him.

Then one day one of his beautiful film star mistresses comes to visit him, and suddenly all the women realise that he is desirable to her and so he must have something, so the minute she leaves life is back to normal and he's fighting them off with a stick again.

Kind of similar to a couple of experiences I've had where someone that you somehow knew wasn't interested in you becomes interested when they see you dating someone.

 

[IdleRich]

not saying that it couldn't well be the case, but I would just tend not to believe things like that unless there is somehow better evidence.

Yeah you're not wrong, this particular claim in fact requires absolutely iron-clad copper-bottomed evidence of the kind that you would happily accept to send someone to the gallows.

 

[Mr. Tea]

The best way to get together with someone you fancy is if you have a friend in common that you can persuade/manipulate into acting as what you can think of as an unofficial dating agency (if you have a fairly innocent sort of mind) or as a kind of panderer/procuress (if you do not).

 

[thirdform]

if they like sheeps head soup then the script writes itself. otherwise they will be a nightmare and insufferable, so, even then, the script writes itself!

 

[Mr. Tea]

if they like sheeps head soup then the script writes itself. otherwise they will be a nightmare and insufferable, so, even then, the script writes itself!

Not just the script, but the puns: "Hey babe, how'd you like some 'head'?", etc.

 

[0bleak]

The best way to get together with someone you fancy is if you have a friend in common that you can persuade/manipulate into acting as what you can think of as an unofficial dating agency (if you have a fairly innocent sort of mind) or as a kind of panderer/procuress (if you do not).

Best when you don't have to do any persuading/manipulation of any friends, but they're keeping you in mind sometimes to suggest to other people, or asking you things like "who do you like" and then go about things.

 

[mixed_biscuits]

let's be generous and say I'm a six out of ten

Luka will be after you

 

[mixed_biscuits]

I'm a heart surgeon of 30 years experience, an esteemed consultant working at a number of hospitals. I save lives every day, give good advice, and my work appraisals are impeccable. I just don't understand how any of this happens.