that's how you fill up with gooey love, right to the eyeballs. can't roll around in the playpen of stoned solipisism sucking your own cock. you have to read sheils' essay, twice, to make sure you understand it.
thats the problem with these people. they only know how to take they dont know how to give. its a spiritual attainment learning how to give of oneself generously and fulsomely isnt it it sheils. overcoming inhibitions and reaching out. luckily we can help. its our mission and its our duty