call me big papa
It's like if I had to talk dirty to a woman I'd be so awkward about it that I'd say something horrendously OTT.
its sexier than sex itself or sadder than sadness itself etc.
Did you come up with this? It's brilliant.
As I said just up there, for me, the everpure pale incel, RNB is tragically aspirational music that I listen to in much the same spirit as the tragic widower flips puddle-eyed through photos of his late lamented never to be resurrected wife. But more so.