Fuck. I know a similar story of a guy who got framed for murdering his own mother in order for a multi generational sexual abuse riddled family to take the heat off themselves because it was becoming too risky having her and the son around. It was actually
them who did it, protecting themselves against her slipping up, as she'd suffered a stroke and was starting to slip into dementia, cracking under the pressure living with all the lies she'd had to carry her whole life and having a son run wild who she herself had abused and wasn't quite right in the head due to her own childhood trauma. The real karma cycle. Passing it on. Sweet as pie if you ever met her, but a bit uncanny valley too. It's an incredibly complex and tangled affair. The family actually arranged to have him bumped off and no doubt will still be plotting it some wy or how. Sadly for him the whole trauma of abuse in his own childhood led to him doing some weird incest shit and developing serious mental issues of his own when he was a kid that were never addressed properly, even though his mother was professional in the field: a teacher for children with behavioural difficulties. But she couldn't risk the family getting blown up, and inevitably her herself. All this actually made it all the more easy for the family to paint an image and smear (some of which is of course valid. He did plenty of fucked up shit. if only it had been dealt with in a timely fashion) to hide their own tracks because of how fucked the son had become. Oh yeah, and of course it's imperative that they make sure he's seen as a compulsive liar and lost on drugs and all that. Cos its not like you get to be that fucked up for free, knamean? But the funny thing is, one of his cousins, well get this, when he was caught for the incest thing when he was 14, his mother said 'look you better make sure you don't end up like Ronny.' 'Who's Ronny?' he asked. 'He's your Uncle T's son.' 'Why is this the first time I ever heard of him?' 'He said that his dad molested him as a kid and was sent away ever to return.' Don't forget this is at a moment when he's basically been excommunicated from the family already. He said 'whaaat? Is it true?' his mother took a somber tone and like she was reciting a hollow mantra said 'Ronny was a liar.' and no further discussion was allowed. Cut to 20 years later and no proper treatment or diagnosis has been given. And a of course there's a wake of destruction left in the path. But he gets called a paedo, a psycho, a murderer and everything nowadays. Can't live a normal life. Even has a daughter. Fucking sad. Definitely relate with the persona non grata there
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And its one of them, he's tarnished. Beyond redemption really. But yet he knows the truth, and one cousin of his also confirmed a lot of the suspicions. She'd been abused to and then found out from several other relatives they had been too. Heavily involved with the Catholic Church and all that. Dark stuff. Would make for a pretty depressing book.
But hey, on the bright side I still talk to him and the amazing thing is, purely based on the strength of never letting the family mind games sow seeds of doubt in his head with all the gaslighting, he's still fucking here. Trying to live a life. Trying to become a better person. Nobody wants to see that happen of course. And in fact one of the sick things is so many try to provoke him into becoming what they project onto him when he knows deep down that while he is an utter fucking mess who's made a list of mistakes long enough to fill a book, he still has more love in his fucking heart that most of the dead inside cunts he's surrounded by on a daily basis virtue signifying what wonderful upstanding citizens they all are. The great schauschpiel of life innit.
Anyway yeah, totally get where you're coming from
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