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I'm not justifying her abuse at all. And for the umpteenth time I have to restate that abusers look for people they can dominate, preferably as easily as possible. Therefore people that are easily dominated or intimidated for whatever reason are more likely to attract people with those...

No, not at all. The reasoning behind it is that an abuser generally looks for someone that he can easily dominate. Now this might be because they're physically weaker but it can also be tied in to their low self-image and emotional neediness, and also often whether their environment was violent...

Nope. Where did I say that? I said that it creates easier targets and that rapists aren't after a challenge. I don't think that there's anything unfactual about that at all.

It's not about the drinking though, it's about the vulnerablility. A woman in the home alone clearly has no-one else around if the rapist decides to rape. I'd imagine a fairly large percentage of those also involve alcohol too. Judging by the domestic abuse cases we get coming through my work...

Found this, which may be of interest in the rape vs sex discussion "Some feminists argue that rape is the violent expression of sex. This for me makes it sound like something that is done together, and clearly, it is not a mutually shared experience. Further deconstruction is necessary. For the...

Seems from a bit of research that - Rapes involving power are generally those associated with spouses or partner abuse, but generally don't have a high level of violence, as power is the principle motivation Rapes of anger often don't even end in ejaculation but violence is much higher Date...

We had a similar idea about doing that for the high street in my hometown, Cannibal Corpse on perpetual loop and door welded shut. Maybe this year....

I'd say that in Bognor when I was growing up, the youth of the town basically split into townie cunts, people that left the town for entertainment and everyone else, which pretty much meant goths, hippies, metalheads, geeks, acidheads, ravers, punks and quite a few other subcultures that have...

(criminal slaps forehead) "you should have said, I was wondering why I kept getting funny looks for helping myself to car stereos"

There is nothing to state that the term "sex" denotes consent. This is presumably why people are asked if sexual intercourse was consensual or non-consensual - it is still sex. It is a particularly twisted distortion of sex admittedly. Masturbation is a form of sex, no other person required...

Have you asked a rapist this? I think this line has been put across since at least the 70's and I don't think it's totally true in all honesty. Not denying the obvious violence but to say there's no sexual element involved in someone...erm...having sex is ridiculous. If it was purely about...

Is 11 adult now? Don't tell the Glitter

What do you mean gone - did you read the thread title? ;) Ah it's cool, writing an essay on Piaget, it's quite magical reading the explanations for why children are such utter mentals. such as attributing human characteristics to psychological processes Q;Where is the dream whilst you are...

A mate of mine managed to walk into a river and be too fucked to swim. Still not sure whether it was ketamine or booze that killed him though, he was quite a fan of both, generally simultaneously.

And british too, is there anything we're still good at? :(

Excellent, excellent, excellent. I so want to see the customer reaction cam :)

Is five double vodkas a lot? That's just a warm up surely? The girls I used to live with regularly drank at least a bottle of wine each before hitting the pubs and clubs.

I do like how when people talk about expressing emotions they generally don't mean anger - "when we said emotions, we meant things we could use to fuck with you - this is like pro-active depression. Please stop"

Precisely, thanks Mr Tea. The amount of blokes I've known that went out, got bladdered and then got the shit kicked out of them for reasons that they were utterly unaware of are too numerous to mention. Would this have occurred if they weren't drunk - possibly, would they have been able to get...

To be honest, I don't believe nuclear families are natural either. Biologically speaking, there's no great need for the male to stick around anyway. As you say, children would be nurtured and protected by the tribe, which in communities with a sufficient enough support structure (friends...