I can't be bothered with relationships anymore either. Nowadays I just cruise for casual pick-ups by being cynical on the internet.
oh. i thought that's what relationships were.
Play your cards right, handsome, and you could get lucky with talk like that...
(when I've forgiven you for jilting me and woops yesterday, you CAD!)
Basically agree with nearly everything in Brother Randy Hickys first post. Have kept on really good terms with my ex, which is the first time it’s ever happened like that for me, which is actually really refreshing, because I didn’t want to stop speaking to her really.
good to know it's possible. First time I've even considered it in a looong time, so reassuring that I'm not necessarily being totally foolish.
if you're happy in your new relationship, then you feel good about yourself in general and the silliness/pettiness of the past doesn't really matter anymore.
I reckon, cut her loose. Imagine she's been sucked into a black hole, and all you can do is shake your head, shrug your shoulders and get on with your own stuff. It's just you and your ego now, so don't put your ego at risk by doing something insane like getting drunk and ringing her ("as a friend") and blurting out, "Are you seeing anyone?" And don't let people tell you, "Oh, that's such an immature attitude, I'm still friends with ALL my exes!" Those are the kind of people who voted Lib Dem, or who buy Brazil shirts in the quarter stages of the World Cup. Passionless.
Is that Zhao at the end ?