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[dilbert1]

I believe its walk-ins only at the Thai Diner!

 

[kid charlemagne]

Metrograph Cinema, with cocktails in the lounge beforehand, ain't bad.

But tell us more about what kinda girl she is, Kid

i dont know. maybe not the right thread. i hate myself. she said last night that i might be too perfect to be her boyfriend.

 

[wektor]

i dont know. maybe not the right thread. i hate myself. she said last night that i might be too perfect to be her boyfriend.

you need to improvise, let her know you are just as much of a fractured human being
or... she might have a problem (hopefully this is not the case)

 

[yyaldrin]

was she on coke again?

 

[dilbert1]

she said last night that i might be too perfect to be her boyfriend.

You don’t need someone who would say that out loud to you, trust me dawg

 

[line b]

hilarious thing to say lmao

 

[line b]

Isn't she in her mid 20's? At the very least you should be self aware enough to not say that out loud even if you believe it at that age.

 

[0bleak]

i dont know. maybe not the right thread. i hate myself. she said last night that i might be too perfect to be her boyfriend.

Have you made a move on her?
That's the kind of thing I would expect to hear if you haven't.
Might be too late now, she might have already mentally placed you in the friend zone.

 

[kid charlemagne]

you need to improvise, let her know you are just as much of a fractured human being
or... she might have a problem (hopefully this is not the case)

i dont know how to do this really. i try to carry and present myself the best i can in life and to her, dressing as bohemian as i can, but does not mean i dont have bad stuff going on in my head and life.... why must she assume things about me? she is so beautiful it is hard to let go.

 

[kid charlemagne]

was she on coke again?

no she has sworn that off for a few weeks. god bless her

 

[kid charlemagne]

You don’t need someone who would say that out loud to you, trust me dawg

yes even after she said that and other things like how she gets anxious over how kind i am and how she is afraid of hurting me, i still stayed the night with her. humiliatingly sensual

 

[kid charlemagne]

Isn't she in her mid 20's? At the very least you should be self aware enough to not say that out loud even if you believe it at that age.

yes, it is bullets to the chest hearing these things from someone who is so affectionate towards me.

 

[william_kent]

if a "significant other" tells you are "an angel'

WATCH OUT

they will turn and try and try to make your life hell

trust me

 

[version]

if a "significant other" tells you are "an angel'

WATCH OUT

they will turn and try and try to make your life hell

trust me

You are an angel and you're so divine
Yes, you are an angel and you're mine all mine

 

[kid charlemagne]

Have you made a move on her?
That's the kind of thing I would expect to hear if you haven't.
Might be too late now, she might have already mentally placed you in the friend zone.

well..... we pretty much have "gotten it on" every time we see eachother.... which has made this thing so confusing..... i thought since we have been seeing eachother so much in 3-4 week span, and been so affectionate to eachother, it would be ok timing for me to ask where it was going and if she would be girlfriend but i was told i have to wait.... i have conflicting thoughts all day..... do i really want to keep trying with someone who openly says she is afraid of hurting me? but she is so beautiful caring and affectionate of me....

 

[kid charlemagne]

i feel so scandoulous saying all this on here.... but the users here always give me the harsh truths... i have to trust them

 

[william_kent]

You are an angel and you're so divine
Yes, you are an angel and you're mine all mine

KISS ME ONCE

LOVE ME FOREVER

 

[william_kent]

WILLIAM KENT once told me an ancient CHINESE proverb:

you can't try on the shirt without buying it first

 

[0bleak]

well..... we pretty much have "gotten it on" every time we see eachother....

oh, in that case - never mind then
"too perfect to be her boyfriend" seemed very close to a "nice guy" statement that, in my experience, could be a warning sign if she says that to you or about you because you haven't yet made a move sexually

 

[version]

i feel so scandoulous saying all this on here.... but the users here always give me the harsh truths... i have to trust them

I don't think we've ever had a discussion like this on here, tbh. It's not really a dating tips kind of place, but maybe it will bring something new out of the forum.