And that explanation of neurosis does seem to work with the explanation of psychosis as "detachment from reality", but I don't know if psychosis is defined differently by any of the big psychoanalysts.
That is, you either conceal and callous the rawness in compliance with normative standards, and develop some kind of neurosis, or you disregard/split from the norms, which are established as reality, and thus detach from reality according to normative standards.