One of the great formalists in 20th C poetics IMO, extending Beckett
Is this the Region, this the Soil, the Clime,
Said then the lost Arch-Angel, this the seat
That we must change for Heav'n, this mournful gloom
For that celestial light? Be it so, since he [ 245 ]
Who now is Sovran can dispose and bid
What shall be right: fardest from him is best
Whom reason hath equald, force hath made supream
Above his equals. Farewel happy Fields
Where Joy for ever dwells: Hail horrours, hail [ 250 ]
Infernal world, and thou profoundest Hell
Receive thy new Possessor: One who brings
A mind not to be chang'd by Place or Time.
The mind is its own place, and in it self
Can make a Heav'n of Hell, a Hell of Heav'n. [ 255 ]
What matter where, if I be still the same,
And what I should be, all but less then he
Whom Thunder hath made greater? Here at least
We shall be free; th' Almighty hath not built
Here for his envy, will not drive us hence: [ 260 ]
Here we may reign secure, and in my choyce
To reign is worth ambition though in Hell:
Better to reign in Hell, then serve in Heav'n.
But wherefore let we then our faithful friends,
Th' associates and copartners of our loss [ 265 ]
Lye thus astonisht on th' oblivious Pool,
And call them not to share with us their part
In this unhappy Mansion, or once more
With rallied Arms to try what may be yet
Regaind in Heav'n, or what more lost in Hell? [
One who brings
A mind not to be chang'd by Place or Time.
The mind is its own place, and in it self
Can make a Heav'n of Hell, a Hell of Heav'n.
Still, I pity him. He has not mastered the art of Return-Maximizing Reading. The trick is to first assume that you are experiencing a world historically great piece of media, and then figure out how that might be the case.
With this trick, you are no longer subject to the whims of chance, whether you are experiencing a great work of art. Every work of art you experience is great, because you make it so.
Well yeah, thats good, but relaxing and enjoying whatever party you've happened to end up at without FOMO isn't the same as choosing a book to read or a film to watch - you have much more control.i think @sus's point is that you can maximise your enjoyment of life. i don't feel I've ever suffered from the fear of missing out because I've always assumed i was at the best party that night because i was there. that doesn't mean that every party I've been to was the best one that ever happened, but it was better than any of the parties i didn't attend.
I think that's why I tend to trust in older canonical stuff and am more willing to put the time in to understand it even if I don't really like it or get it on first contact. You feel like there must be something in it. I don't want to waste time on minor stuff, you've only got one life.