banking on wanking
Soggy biscuit.Less of a group aspect to wanking nowadays. Presumably was a male bonding activity back in the day.
I think largely because of the way porn has hijacked the system
For women, wanking is often framed as self-care these days. Its notable how sexual acts, sex work, masturbation have been fully integrated within an ethical system, with a queer theory grounding. but obviously for men, for corpsey, for us, the wank is a shameful thing. why?
I've been trying to redefine how it registers to me, and self-care isn't far from the target, in terms of the optimal register. Its like a periodic purging of energies that would otherwise irrupt into one's mood and color one's reality accordingly, usually in terms of frustration, no? Its easy to see how this can be framed in terms of self-care.For women, wanking is often framed as self-care these days. Its notable how sexual acts, sex work, masturbation have been fully integrated within an ethical system, with a queer theory grounding. but obviously for men, for corpsey, for us, the wank is a shameful thing. why?
Psycho-physiological hygiene. Keeping the energies from swelling beyond critical thresholds, by way of constantly siphoning those energies into orthogonal and abstract expression. In my case, primarily intellectual. Seeking intellectual greatness, as a sort of libidinally conducive fantasy, a fantasy that can serve to inspire such constant siphoning.