i can't say ive ever gone to club for romantic or adventurous purposes.
ive only really ever gone to hear the sheer gravitational force of music over a loud system, which has made me realise that if i could rent out some farmland i would probably just have a rave with my mates cos its ultimately the same thing.
i went to see rrose in 2013 at a sunday afters, and the dj before them was playing some pretty standard tech house (not bad, not good, just average) and it was honestly one of the most boring hours of my life. Rrose was fantastic though. made all up for it. dark deep trippy techno and then some.