shiels
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I'm ambivalent about it. Generally I don't mind too much if it's a 'natural' error or simple laziness. So saying "Why don't you and me go to the pub?" is technically wrong, but it's not ugly, because it's a normal, natural sentence. But "It's high time for a pub trip for you and I" is like nails being dragged down a blackboard. I just cannot stand hypercorrection. Really hate it.
Similarly, "These are Toms shoes" - again, technically wrong, but doesn't bother me. The omission of something that should be there is no big deal.
But "These are Tom's shoe's" - when there's something there that shouldn't be there - aargh, hate it.
Yeah I basically feel the same. maybe this is because the brain is built to / enjoys filling in missing info but it’s taxing to filter out complexity.