That's what I was getting at partly I think. I can't understand most of the posts I made last night, I'm squinting at them, trying to decipher them, and failing. Must have been drunker than I realised.
It's funny though cos sincerity is often something i find embarrassing in music - in white music, specifically. Like I think of Creed or something, or Pearl Jam - very sincere men groaning about their feelings.