Ernest Hartmann Boundaries Questionnaire ***NOW WORKING AND UPDATED***

[luka]

i diagnose Matthew as putting boundaries distance and armouring in place to cope with being a thin boundaried man nervous about dissolving or imploding.

 

[luka]

yyaldrin is more open and trusting due to his lifelong social popularity and sexual success.

 

[luka]

plus nurturing liberal open minded Dutch parenting. very supportive healthy foundations very few of us english people enjoy

 

[Woebot]

180

 

[Woebot]

@Matthew can you please tell me what it means that i am level 164

Your result

Mean is 271 +/- 50. Range is 120-454.

"Thin" boundary scores are higher. "Thick" boundary scores are lower.

 

[luka]

all the lads have 'thick' boundaries then? this feels counter intuitive

 

[Woebot]

i thought i'd get a higher score actually - but then i am quite organised and fastidious - all those ego-boundary things

i've triple-checked and it's all working correctly. so for instance if you ONLY put 4 for question 1 (organised Thick to thin) and 4 for question 5 (organised Thin to thick) you get a score of 0 (because they cancel eachother out

here's the score sheet:

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[Woebot]

all the lads have 'thick' boundaries then? this feels counter intuitive

it certainly does.

 

[luka]

and we all have spent years kidding ourselves about being arty types when we could have been making a bundle in a managerial role. @woops have you got your score yet?

 

[woops]

Working on it

 

[luka]

@shiels do the querstionnaire you bloody layabout. we're being data-harvested again.

 

[Woebot]

So if I enter all "4" in the left column:

1​

13​

25​

37​

49​

72​

82​

92​

112​

113​

119​

130​

and then all "4" in the right column:

5​

7​

19​

27​

29​

40​

52​

60​

122​

125​

134​

139​

I get a result of 0

 

[Woebot]

i think the biggest weakness i have identified in the concept is that some people who have weak boundaries have a built-in compensation where they avoid the "oceanic" they avoid ego-dissolution.

HOWEVER you could argue that self-erected boundary or not - that's still a boundary...

 

[Woebot]

if i get a moment tomorrow i might try and put in a full set of thin boundary options (and vice versa) and see what i get.

 

[yyaldrin]

according to the shorter version you linked to i am thin.

 

[pattycakes_]

168 - confirmed sig

 

[shiels]

45 - mid range. appallingly worded questions though,useless quiz

 

[shiels]

oh i took the wrong one

 

[luka]

i diagnose Matthew as putting boundaries distance and armouring in place to cope with being a thin boundaried man nervous about dissolving or imploding.

i think the biggest weakness i have identified in the concept is that some people who have weak boundaries have a built-in compensation where they avoid the "oceanic" they avoid ego-dissolution.

HOWEVER you could argue that self-erected boundary or not - that's still a boundary...

 

[luka]

according to the shorter version you linked to i am thin.

youre about as thick as it gets according to Matt's one. even thicker than me and Patty and that's saying something.