And I do think my parents represent your average Trump voter more than some Patriot Prayer wingnut or white supremacist. My dad’s off the Trump train, they’ll both vote for him over Kamala though, but my mom other than being staunchly anti-abortion is primarily motivated by this attitude of being looked down on by liberal professional types for her cultural values, where she shops, her faith, not being politically correct, etc and for the way Trump’s being targeted by liberals affirms her in that.
Not expecting you to share, but for me it would be interesting to me to know more about you and your family's location and the cultural, religious, and race/ethnic background.
If your parents represent the average Trump voter, an interesting question to ask is why is he more popular in areas that have always been more backwards wrt racism, sexism, etc. - Me, I'm a white guy from the bible belt (and have spent years in different regions of the south, including again in two different places these last few years) so I kinda know something about the culture where he is most popular.
I have a lot of conservative (Ronald Reagan is a hero) family (one of my brothers has named every one of his three sons after Republican presidents) and religious (I'm talking southern Baptist here) family, where a few have actually been voting Democrats in the last couple of elections and it certainly isn't because
Dems really did get people to turn their brains off and held them hostage with moral blackmail like they were what stood between the country and a white supremacist apocalypse.
These Reagan worshipping southern Baptists are also educated and well read (including the history-teaching brother with the three sons named after Republican presidents).
That's just my Dad's side!
My mom, well her family is from deep Appalachia (like only one generation away from no indoor plumbing or running water - I'm talking the kind of places you see in the movie Deliverance) and is also southern baptist and absolutely despises Trump, and I think for good reason being she's a woman that has fought since at least the 1970s to be taken seriously academically and professionally in the south, and fighting for women's rights including abortion, and raising my older brother and I as a divorced single mother on welfare while she worked and went to school (also with help from the govt) to better herself.
And your mom voting for him out of spite is kind of like a self-fulfilling prophecy since one of the stereotypes of a Trump voter is exactly that - a spite voter.
edit: Also, full disclosure, I'm on "the dole" as the brits say, for fairly severe nonverbal learning disorder, and I don't buy that Trump didn't know or remember that disabled person he was mocking - or that he mocked others in the same way - even I can see that his hand and arm movements were clearly different than in those instances where people have tried to compare them to his flailing arms/hands in other instances of mocking where people tried to do comparisons.
MOREOVER, as someone that still to this day doesn't feel comfortable even doing something as simple as running if people can see me, due to years of mockery about my motor skills when I was growing up and no one knowing about nonverbal learning disorder at the time, I generally find mockery of any kind to be scummy unless it's in "good fun".
I guess I'm just kind of annoyed by what seems like "six of one", "half dozen of another" kind of equivalency.