luka
Well-known member
one thing I've learned also is that there is a kind of Goldilocks position on the spectrum and that if you fall outside of that experience itself, affects, noises, the sensation of things against the skin, the feeling of organs inside you, all can become intolerable. Too much too intense too intimate too intrusive. Or at the other end you might be effectively numbed, deadened, ahedonic, so pleasure again becomes impossible, any intensity at all become impossible