London officially flatlined the day I moved here
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Here is Ayana
1 month ago
Too late, the cultures of African Americans and Puerto Ricans are already replaced with brand new immigrants.... the culture and vibe that made NY so fly is gone
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Clockwork
1 month ago
@Here is Ayana completely gone. lol that’s why ATL is the new hotspot for black entertainment
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Here is Ayana
1 month ago
@Clockwork yes it's sad.... East Harlem used to be more Puerto Ricans too..... that's when it was dope
it had thrown in the towel and i knew it was safe to come hereDid London take one look at you and throw in the towel?
it had thrown in the towel and i knew it was safe to come here
would like to hear more about this, in particular the first and second paragraphsIt doesn't actually surprise me that much. When I was doing a lot of clubbing in 2017/18, I was hanging out a bit with young people and it becomes clear that a lot of them didn't really enjoy clubs as social spaces, basically fraught with issues for them, for various reasons.
I think it's harder these days to enjoy wilful abandon in the way you might need or want to. The whole social media after party checkup, like how people would do these full on deconstruction of the night.
There are still tons of young people going out and having it in various ways, I just don't think it's happening in clubs in quite the same way as it was 20 years ago.
There's much more awareness about mental health these days and people are under a lot of stress. I know at least ten people irl with anxiety/panic attacks and I wouldn't be surprised if it's even more common among younger people.It wasn't everyone, don't get me wrong, but for me as, at the time, someone pushing 40, I found it very surprising that early 20s ppl were like this.
As a dad living in a small provincial city, I'd give my right arm for the chance to be in a loud, dark space with lots of people now and then.So re 1st para: I met a few people who felt unsafe in a club environment cos eg they didn't like loud dark places with lots of people. It made them anxious. Like they were more comfy in a quieter, more controlled environment?
Also others who didn't like some of the sonic/visual content, found it offensive.
I mean I can go into more detail I suppose.
It wasn't everyone, don't get me wrong, but for me as, at the time, someone pushing 40, I found it very surprising that early 20s ppl were like this.
2nd para: this did my head in and in all fairness I was as guilty for it myself, but what I mean is that I was on every social at the time, I mean twitter, Facebook, insta. And when you went out, it became this thing the next day that you would scroll through all the bits people had posted about the night before and there was often some nitpicking point that people latched on, making something of nothing, then it all gets very serious very quick, public pile ons etc.
It got to be so that with some nights you went to, there was all these reams of advance information about safer spaces policies, how there would be people with name badges who you could ask for help etc.
I think all that added to the anxiety felt by the people in para 1.
Anyway, i ended up deleting all the socials in 2018 cos it was too much and by then it was also clear that the 3rd summer of love was not really happening.
I hope that explains things a bit more
thanks for this catalog. having hung out with some early-20s americans recently, it is pretty interesting to think about what that experience must be like, of being that kind of age and all of this safer space etc thing at clubs be just the way things are, rather than something that is new. i mean, the first time i saw it (in nyc, at elsewhere i think) i was pretty blown away and it just looked outright like a good thing. but must be strange to be out and constantly wondering if you're making one infraction or another.So re 1st para: I met a few people who felt unsafe in a club environment cos eg they didn't like loud dark places with lots of people. It made them anxious. Like they were more comfy in a quieter, more controlled environment?
Also others who didn't like some of the sonic/visual content, found it offensive.
I mean I can go into more detail I suppose.
It wasn't everyone, don't get me wrong, but for me as, at the time, someone pushing 40, I found it very surprising that early 20s ppl were like this.
2nd para: this did my head in and in all fairness I was as guilty for it myself, but what I mean is that I was on every social at the time, I mean twitter, Facebook, insta. And when you went out, it became this thing the next day that you would scroll through all the bits people had posted about the night before and there was often some nitpicking point that people latched on, making something of nothing, then it all gets very serious very quick, public pile ons etc.
It got to be so that with some nights you went to, there was all these reams of advance information about safer spaces policies, how there would be people with name badges who you could ask for help etc.
I think all that added to the anxiety felt by the people in para 1.
Anyway, i ended up deleting all the socials in 2018 cos it was too much and by then it was also clear that the 3rd summer of love was not really happening.
I hope that explains things a bit more
thanks for this catalog. having hung out with some early-20s americans recently, it is pretty interesting to think about what that experience must be like, of being that kind of age and all of this safer space etc thing at clubs be just the way things are, rather than something that is new. i mean, the first time i saw it (in nyc, at elsewhere i think) i was pretty blown away and it just looked outright like a good thing. but must be strange to be out and constantly wondering if you're making one infraction or another.
i mean I am speculating a lot from a fairly small number of interactions with that kind of demographic. but i am interested in what happens to social interaction of all kinds in the current popular discourse where so many behaviours and actions are moving from being acceptable to unacceptable. i mean 'interested', not necessarily critical.
yeah that's all well and good, you don't want that shit. but im talking about how much social media plays a part in the before-during-after and how it seems to intensify feelings of anxiety. also just a lot of unnecessary carping which like i say, i was part of as well, but mainly as a spectator watching a car crash.the safer space stuff makes sense to me, although I've only really experienced it with regards to people being encouraged to report sexual harrassment to bar staff, is that what you two are talking about? It's ridiculous how handsy guys can get.