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    being intimately involved with the UK left

    There's a lot of untrained or poorly trained people on social media. I mean - even having a therapeutic presence online is something you should question, & think carefully about. It's useful for therapists to be quite opaque.
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    being intimately involved with the UK left

    I would ask "qualified how"? I mean, where did she do her training etc.
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    This is a great discussion about narcissism. It begins with an attempt to distinguish clinical use of the term from the pop cultural: https://www.psychiatrypodcast.com/psychiatry-psychotherapy-podcast/185-narcissism-with-jonathan-shedler They are unsurprisingly miles apart. Concepts passing...
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    being intimately involved with the UK left

    Interesting point about language there, and I don't deny the prevalence of therapy may have an affect on the wider culture. But in terms of practicing as a therapist, you avoid that shit like the plague - one of the things that makes it curative is your ability to have real emotional contact...
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    being intimately involved with the UK left

    Speaking as a therapist the whole therapy language thing is bollocks. It's important you talk clearly and openly to patients. I blame TikTok.
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    being intimately involved with the UK left

    Diane Abbott obviously gets a massive amount of shit for just being a black women. I imagine it's tremendously stressful. Just look at the comments under any articles mentioning here. I don't like her politics at all but that seems undeniable. Sarker is younger, prettier and has the buffer of...
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    "Why do bankers love techno?"

    I remember Larry Heard playing the Skyy Club! I didn't go though 😭
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    being intimately involved with the UK left

    On I hope a more interesting note - I don't quite understand the weird interest I have in internal Labour party affairs, its like a fetish - the thing that would interest me, up close, would be how these people relate to politics from an emotional and identity point of view. Is it being used...
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    being intimately involved with the UK left

    I agree it's a strange world. It must be doubly so at the moment with things gearing up for a Labour government and people those you're talking about having completely shut themselves out of power and influence. Owen Jones seems particularly apposite here, a few different decisions and he'd be...
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    The Republican War on Transgender People, Drag Queens, and Queerness in General

    Ah Droid has already said that better than me.
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    The Republican War on Transgender People, Drag Queens, and Queerness in General

    But when literally every other group in the world use the acronym LGBT the exclusion stands out and strikes one as absolutely deliberate. This is such a disingenuous claim.
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    The Republican War on Transgender People, Drag Queens, and Queerness in General

    Sure, here ya go: https://thedigradio.com/podcast/trans-children-w-jules-gill-peterson/ Would like to read her book but I already have too many tomes to get through
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    The Republican War on Transgender People, Drag Queens, and Queerness in General

    To develop that, and respond to your point above, to convince me, you'd have to convince me that the positions your advocating aren't going to turn up the dial on violence, verbal or otherwise.
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    The Republican War on Transgender People, Drag Queens, and Queerness in General

    This is the roots of my position, really. It's essentially an ethical one, aside from all the arguments and definitions of what gender really is etc etc. It's interesting etc etc but really being pro-trans rights is simply an affirmation against cruelty. No one arguing the anti-trans position...
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    The Republican War on Transgender People, Drag Queens, and Queerness in General

    BTW listening to that podcast about trans children upthread was genuinely illuminating for me - it showed the historical ubiquity of transness and how these bodies were policed and medicalised. I don't think someone could argue me out of thinking the evidence presented there is basically...
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    The Republican War on Transgender People, Drag Queens, and Queerness in General

    I agree with you about bad faith attacks, it's why I don't bother arguing online much. As to what would convince me - I think a really open, honest acknowledgment that you might not understand another's experience. I don't *understand* the lived experience of being trans *from the inside* but I...
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    The Republican War on Transgender People, Drag Queens, and Queerness in General

    Where? I can see you posted a bunch of random, fact-free assertions, but that's not how you prove your point.
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    The Republican War on Transgender People, Drag Queens, and Queerness in General

    There aren't any. You've lost an argument with someone more intelligent than yourself. Log off and go away.
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    Trump

    If it's an opinion Dinesh D'`souza holds it's by default wrong. I can see the popularity of outlaws in American discourse, sure. I can also see how "revolt against the elites" has worked in the US and in the UK. It's the essence of the culture wars really. But "the black vote" going for Trump...
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    Trump

    Entirety of the black vote? It's too early to call things like this. Not sure that he'll beat 4 indictments. Can't say though, it's such an unprecedented situation.
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