Gasoline, Sacrifice and Starry Eyes were the ones that really jumped out at me.he does have this very queasy tension between being repellant and angelic... I can't stop listening to gasoline. The ornate late MJ harmonising kills me
I was just about to say. Men crying and being sentimental always happened its just that people are more willing to talk about it since me and drake made it cool
gus says women find it unattractive when a man cries
these were real life women! The only women I talk to on the internet is other life and theyve already publicly declared their dissatisfactiondo you and linebaugh structure your lives around the approval of women on the internet?
good name for a songI cry, but rarely and always in private.
And notice she doesn't morally justify her sexual response. It isn't a normative post, like "crying is bad" or "men shouldn't cry because I find it unattractive." It's a descriptive post. She's just honest about noting it and sharing it. Now we all have more information than we did beforeIm only teasing. There is an interesting discussion around how 'politically' unpalatable sexual attraction will always be. the inversion will be:
while I don’t want women to completely avoid it, seeing a woman being overweight does turn me off. I’m seeing the pendulum swing from “women should stay skinny” to “a woman being overwight has zero effect on her attractiveness” and neither of these are true
so much of the chat around mental health, body positivity etc has this dull relativism
William James, deployed to save me?
this is key yes. we must have the courage to be transparent about our strangeness and monstrousness. where and how its appropriate to express is important too obv. theres a big big big opportunity for the straight man who can crack being a big kinky woke sex influencer. thats my main project atm, that and the ultimate exquisite ambient jungle bits to relax toAnd notice she doesn't morally justify her sexual response.
I don't know whether that's possible without coming off as a creep, like those straight guys who are very vocal about being a "male feminist".theres a big big big opportunity for the straight man who can crack being a big kinky woke sex influencer.