luka
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the wisdom of versionDoes it have to be one or the other? I'm a man and I don't want to be like Andrew Tate or androgynous/feminine.
the wisdom of versionDoes it have to be one or the other? I'm a man and I don't want to be like Andrew Tate or androgynous/feminine.
Yeah, the notion that men should "embrace femininity" depends on the femininity good/masculinity bad paradigm, which is precisely what the likes of Tate feed on in the first place.Does it have to be one or the other? I'm a man and I don't want to be like Andrew Tate or androgynous/feminine.
I want to promote femininity while remaining in the context of male heterosexuality. Hypermasculine movements scare me. It would be cool if some community existed where men promote defiance to gender norms, but alas, no such den of gender trouble exists.
I do want to adapt Butler's work to a more radical Marxist politics, but that's another project.
"Marxism, in the only valid sense of the word, is faced today by three main groups of adversaries. First group: those bourgeois who claim that the mercantile capitalist type of economy is the ultimate one, that its historical overcoming by the socialist mode of production is a false perspective, and who, very consistently, completely reject the entire doctrine of economic determinism and class struggle. Second group: the so-called Stalinist communists, who claim to accept Marxist historical and economic doctrines even though putting forward demands (in the advanced capitalist countries too) which are not revolutionary but identical to, if not worse than, the politics (democracy) and economics (popular progressivism) of the traditional reformists. Third group: the professed followers of the revolutionary doctrine and method who however attribute its present abandonment by the proletarian majority to initial defects and deficiencies in the theory; which needs, therefore, to be corrected and updated.
Negators – falsifiers – modernizers. We fight all three, but today consider the modernizers to be the worst."
Isn't this basically the mainstream liberal position on masculinity and precisely why Tate gained so much traction? You still have guys like The Rock and Jason Statham in Hollywood, but a big part of celebrity and media culture now seems to involve playing with gender norms and deconstructing masculinity, e.g. Harry Styles.
@thirdform Who wrote that? Why does it fittingly describe Butler? Which of those three groups does she fit into? I think Butler's theory and marxism are compatible. Do you think identity politics and marxism are incompatible? Butler's work integrates Marx through Althusser. She has her own theory of ideology.
Awful parenting strategy, all politics aside.You read that recent article on him and the effect he was having on teenage boys and their parents?
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I can believe it, but it also reads like the author may have made some of it up and attributed it to fictional people. This feels like someone taking the piss,
As Tate was blowing up, Ruby made the connection and grew concerned — even more so when Charlie told her that Tate was being interviewed on Tucker Carlson and suggested they watch together. She and her husband said “no.” “I’m like a Brooklyn, far-left person. If Tucker Carlson interviewed Barack Obama, who’s probably my favorite person on earth, I wouldn’t watch that,” she says.
These people use words like an EDM girl wearing kandi or a teenage boy scribbling band names on his binder. It's all about building an associative structure of identity; they don't actually know what the words mean, or expect a coherent ideology to emerge. It's "decorative."Ah yes, the noted socialist firebrand Barack Obama, beloved of 'far-left people' everywhere.
I think this is an issue with decolonization and anti-patriarchal efforts generally. At some point, if you shit all over someone's demographics/identity/cultural heritage long enough, resistance will form. I want to think that, strategically, you can pre-empt the rubber-band snap-back reaction of Western Christian traditionalism by acknowledging that just maybe European culture contributed some useful things to the world, while also having some real drawbacks/limitations/blind spots (cue the value of non-Western cultures, rituals, epistemologies).Yeah, the notion that men should "embrace femininity" depends on the femininity good/masculinity bad paradigm, which is precisely what the likes of Tate feed on in the first place.
I think people like Tate will become more and more of a problem over time, because the left prefers to employ literally any social control strategy other than actually provide (1) positive ideology (2) compelling arguments against their opposition.
I'm naturally very suspicious of discourse that talks about "masculinity" and "femininity" as if they were two objectively well-defined things with stable, universally recognised definitions, in much the same way that a physicist might talk about "the atomic nucleus." And purported associations between masculinity and one particular thing, and between femininity and some other, opposed thing, may work just fine in the context of Taoism, but I personally have very little time for that way of thinking. Jordan Peterson, for example, does this by associating masculinity with order and femininity with chaos. He's coming at it from a decidedly anti-feminist perspective, but I don't find any more value in feminist positions that rely on the same way of thinking.Finally, I want to respond to @Mr. Tea , who affirmed a "masculinity bad/femininity good paradigm." First off all I think femininity has been traditionally treated as the morally inferior of the two. As a feminist I promote the normative equality of masculinity and femininity: both genders have the equal value. The problem is that femininity has traditionally been underrepresented or repressed by mainstream society. Masculinity tries to block out femininity, following Luce Irigaray. I prefer to think of the distinction like this: masculinity correlates to instrumental value, while femininity correlates to unconditional, final value. Instrumental value is important for inventions, innovations, and social progress. But life would not be living without atleast one thing valuable as an end in itself. We can't rank either type of value as superior or inferior to the other. We need both to live. Historically we've been deprived of the feminine and following the Frankfurt School, I do think capitalism promotes instrumental value at the expense of final and intrinsic value. Thus capitalism sides with masculinity, just like Irigaray said in her studies on Marx.
One thing I can't figure out is the huge proliferation of flags to represent every conceivable sexual orientation and gender identity, which seems to epitomize exclusivity and labelling, when the original rainbow flag was chosen for the exact opposite reason: to represent inclusion and diversity.For instance, a lot of contemporary queer epistemology looks at categories, labels, words—"digital" culture generally—as this imprisoning, limiting cognitive structure. And that's true! Structure really is limited and reductive and limiting!
I think they can, I think it would just take a paradigm shift. I agree that it was a negation to a structure that has disappeared, but all political tribes were at one point something other than they are today. Change is the nature of reality. Environments drift and causes reinvent themselves.
What about the female fantasy? Can you give examples of works that represent it? I aim to represent femininity from a male perspective. Where do we see the feminine perspective in our culture? In a gender-equal society, an androgynarchy, to coin a term, we would have equal gender representation and thus have access to a third, androgynous, relational perspective and fantasy that contain the other two fantasies in it. I atleast promote an alternative fantasy. How do we get a critique of Tate more radical than promoting an alternative?