Kid Charlemagne is Pussy Whipped

kid charlemagne

kid charlemagne

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no no no i think i misspoke.... you must understand please.... i literally am looking for an emotional connection and for love more than anything else, but the point of all this thread is trying to gauge how to handle her considering how i feel knowing that i cant get a gauge on her given all the mixed signals she gives me.... is it so simple that i just have to wait it out, overcome my overthinking and she will come around further on me?
 
kid charlemagne

kid charlemagne

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i brought up the idea of "cheapening pussy" so that maybe it would alleviate the paranoid overthinking feelings about her.... but i guess if i did that it would make me feel guilty or worse?
 
mixed_biscuits

mixed_biscuits

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The dating conservatives are right here: the more partners you have before marriage the less successful your marriage will tend to be, research says.
 
sus

sus

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No it couldnt possibly be that people who date for decades are predisposed against long term commitments. Its the dating that causes them to have a bad marriage, so dont do that or else
 
sus

sus

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Like his membeanes are all swollen up from covid so he cant think. No ability to make fine distinctions because its all swollen fused together. Thick.
 
mixed_biscuits

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sus said:
No it couldnt possibly be that people who date for decades are predisposed against long term commitments. Its the dating that causes them to have a bad marriage, so dont do that or else
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I'm sure you can still have a mildly successful multi-year marriage, so don't worry. P.S. look at the research.
 
wektor

wektor

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Strangely enough, I found @mixed_biscuits to say sensible things a few pages ago. First time in a while!
I think with the bringing up formers, alternative life options etc. it really depends, if those make you feel bad, then probably ok to let her know about it, but as far as no emotional commitments go – I tend to think those are topics pretty alright to discuss with someone you're just seeing for a while.
So the question might also be whether she's trying to make it seem casual to you? Or is she trying to make you feel jealous or purpose? Is there bad intent involved?
Or maybe it's just casual funny facts?
Some ex convo can be a bit icky, but a) might be understandable if it was a long term thing to some extent (also depending on how she brings it up ofc) b) biscuits might be right in a sense that if it's just a casual thing, there is no justification for you to be hurt by her mentioning XYZ topics. Just my opinion here. I think it's chill really, just try to not tear yourself over it, get busy with something else a lil! See what happens...
 
kid charlemagne

kid charlemagne

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shes been a bit despondent over text the past couple days, i try not to read too into it as she apologizes for being a bad contact and has said shes been busy or whatever, but it does bug me how when she has texted me, its just whatever she is saying, and completely unrelated to what i had said before. i sent a joni mitchell song and some thoughts in relation to something she had brought up to me in person, and then all of this seems to be completely ignored i guess. i will bring this up civily because something we talkede about over the phone was being ddirect with each other...... i just dont think its so much to ask for to just not have most of what i say over text be ignored.
 
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