Cultural elitism? Come on, seriously - do you buy your music off the shelf in Tescos and go out and buy whatever mainstream advertising flashes at you on the telly? Isn't this Dissensus?

I thought that folk around here were a bit more intelligent and discerning than this. They are about music - why not about sex/gender?
And yes, I know women judge men's physical appearance too. But there's an ugly tone of misogyny to all this "question the sexuality of anyone who fancied her/typical ugly British chick/this photo is unfair 'cos she's ungilded/bitch looks like Skinner".
It probably comes across as uptight/pc, but it genuinely upsets me, the same way racism does (though they're not the same thing).