I just caught myself 'air conducting' while listening to a jazz record, which is exactly what my dad does.
i have long ago taken every precaution to never, ever turn into my old man. it has completely worked , and will continue to. i do not intended to behave or think in any way, shape, or form even slightly resembling anything he ever did or thought.
this is so important for me and i have done it for so long that years ago it became a non-issue, and i never ever think about it -- in fact this thread is the first thing that reminded me of this in maybe 5 years.
Interested in Matt's comments above. Me becoming my Dad or not has become a bit of an obsession of my partner...