baboon2004
Darned cockwombles.

A wonderful pairing.
I'd say that a lot of this stuff is actually displaced anxiety about other things...since I started really getting into a good diet and running and weights to look better, I've actually felt better because it's the best thing for my brain chemistry, far better than being on bloody SSRIs or god knows what else I'd be prescribed.
She's lovely. Not sexy, but just...lovely.![]()
I've been hearing that bullshit for years & that's what it is, bullshit, it makes me really angry actually. a girl I went to high school with was a communist & I remember her attempting to explain to me how it was bourgeois to encourage people to eat healthy food. it also goes back those comments I made about my disgust w/the entire concept - the bourgeois marketing myth - of "health food" as a privilege that only the relatively wealthy can enjoy. a bourgeois myth which ironically (or, again, not) communists are in this case buying into.
anyway the cultural chauvinism comes from how you say it, not what you're saying. if you put it across in a sneering, superior way then sure, it's kinda offensive & people won't listen. I'm all about positively encouraging - not ordering - people to eat better. & explaining why it will be to their benefit instead of just telling them it will be.
(Contains 150% of your RDA of Matt Lucas.)
I love avocados, but they give me migraines. It's on a whole list, with most of my other favorite foods: bananas, olives, capers, red wine, almonds, chocolate, etc. I've noticed I can get past this if I have just one thing per day, but if I mix two off the list, I'm done for. French foods, which I love, are murderous.
You may already know all this but there's a few pretty simple things you can do to eat better [...] Always having healthy snacks - fruits, veggies, nuts, etc. - around, especially when you're out & about, so you can eat them in place of giving in to junk food urges.
In my experience, it's always having food around that causes obesity, because your body gets accustomed to always eating. I suspect that others find it similarly difficult to control themselves in the face of food -- probably similar to ex-smokers/drug users/alcoholics, who can handle the absence of their drug as long as it's not easily available. I've noticed that to this day I'm unable to resist food that's right in front of me, but if there's no <i>easy</i> opportunity to eat (i.e. if I have to go to the shop and buy food, or if I have to cook first), I have no problem with eating only every 8 hours or so.
re: Body image issues
I'd say that a lot of this stuff is actually displaced anxiety about other things. I used to hate the way I looked, but it wasn't really about looks, it was about losing certain people in my life and feeling alienated and alone. I'm just a normal looking guy really. Instead of thinking about the really painful and important things, I could obsess about being too short or paranoid bollocks about girls hating me or whatever. And the ironic thing is, since I started really getting into a good diet and running and weights to look better, I've actually felt better because it's the best thing for my brain chemistry, far better than being on bloody SSRIs or god knows what else I'd be prescribed.
It's funny but the food that triggers migraine seems to be culture dependent: Wine can be a migraine trigger -- strangely white wine triggers migraine in France and red wine is a trigger in England. In Italy, everything seems to trigger a headache. This suggests that food is not fact the trigger.
@Baboon: who are those two women you posted at 6:35 PM yday? they're both really pretty. the one wearing the necklace looks vaguely familiar.
It's funny but the food that triggers migraine seems to be culture dependent
I just wish people loved themselves more*, as they were, w/o having to resort to all this craziness.