It's not really got anything to do with 'conspiracy theories' as such, at least as I would use the term. It's more just a case of people being (rightly, of course) wary or openly critical of the spin put on news stories or the way stories are assigned a certain implicit priority, but then going so far as to seemingly question whether or not the thing being reported has even happened at all.
You were the one who said you "didn't get my point" about being wary of the media, about which you now say "rightly of course" we should be wary or critical.
It's a bit rich to BE the straw man, and then say that the other side is as straw man.
and as for the rest of it, well as is often the case (boringly one might say), parroting sexism and elitism seems likely to get a pass as "interesting" or rebellious, but pointing out those talking points and attitudes is boring etc. To each his own I guess. for a change, next you can point out when I'm taking things too personally when gender issues come up!