i truly believe that it is important to be kind.
because we are alive for 80 years and that's it. we are against the system and there is a lot of fucked up shit to be angry about in the world, but on a personal level, and especially BECAUSE of all the terrible shit in the world, it is important to create good vibes, and connections.
with that said i've been very withdrawn socially, partly by choice, lately... i'm at risk of drifting off from my friends and becoming isolated. i never seem to have time (and a lot of times desire) to go to social functions and parties...
but still, understanding and inclusion is key.
an extreme example: me and GF were talking about Neo-Nazis. she was saying most on the left have only (understandable) hatred toward them, and just want them to be locked up or even killed. but if we really take a step back and look at it for what it is, they are only ignorant, frustrated and suffering people. they are still human just like us. only they grew up in crap towns and never went to school, have no jobs and are dirt poor, and their frustration become extremely misguided. and if we as society ostracize and demonize them the situation can only get worse. I'm not saying they should not be criminalized or thrown into jail, but in the larger picture, ultimately, the key, as always, very VERY difficult as it might seem, is education, understanding, and inclusion.
theoretically. that is. i've no idea how to educate or include when it comes to neo-nazis IRL.