pattycakes_
Can turn naughty
:crylarf: a nerve has been struck
It's obvious what he was anxious about isn't it. Youre going into a different world with different rules and you feel out of place and square and like a big grey pudgy sausage and you think everyone will notice and laugh at you for your shit clothes and your painfully inhibited body language and your palpable fear of being bummed.
This is just people trying to prove how right on and liberated they are now which obviously is a dead end.
This is just people trying to prove how right on and liberated they are now which obviously is a dead end.
I'm not saying it is rational or desirable for anyone to feel those things. I'm saying it's understandable and unavoidable.
No, you're just refusing to follow the conversation. it's not about being right on, it's about not claiming to be liberated and being a homophobe!
The other huge component of this is feeling that you are intruding somewhere where you don't belong.
This is an interesting area when thinking about ego. Posturing, virtue signalling, insecurities and prejudices and ignorance you feel but don't show, very egotistic
Is anyone free of that?
Is anyone free of that?
this is something i can relate to though. i remember having a nice chat with a girl one time and she was getting personal and then she asked me how my coming out had been and i felt like an imposter. made me feel terrible.