That woman was!
You get the flip too. Pint of wife-beater as cultural artefact. A mate called it a variety of Phil Tufnell face - a type of predatory male you’d see out on the piss, flushed cheeks, very polite until drunk. Cue sneers and you looking at my pint mate fury, repeat offenders propping up a chippy full of pub dust winding every cunt up. Gaggle of people trying to pull his female companion away during fractious verbals but stalker typologies? Proper fucked
See a lot of coercive control with work. One of the worst was during induction. A partner to a lass in an awful situation who, after being told not to abuse her by multiple people after her pregnancy, was still covertly pimping and raping her regularly, causing even more damage. About a year after her delivery she got pneumonia so she couldn’t street hustle bringing in £ and, shortly after, he murdered her. Total social services prolapse, multiple warnings didn’t get through or were ignored. Will never forget her face of distilled duress, stress and brutality caught in a half-smile