Corpsey

bandz ahoy
The internet's been a real gamechanger for the stalker. They can prowl you and your friends social media at leisure if you aren't savvy enough to have robust privacy settings or simply not be on there in the first place.

There was that bloke who was recently sent down for stalking at least 62 women for over a decade,

Reading this sort of thing makes me feel all right wing and itching to do violence

And then his lawyers claim he's autistic and I think ah poor guy he's clearly fucking miserable

Still, what do you do? Imprison him obviously, but will that help in the long run? Maybe prison would be so horrible that it would put him off reoffending? Or maybe he'll get therapy?

Or MAYBE he should have been thrown into an active volcano
 

luka

Well-known member
"neurodivergent" like omen. sadmanbarty had some shivering of conscience when he realised all the victims of the noncehunting videos he was watching were also 'neurodivergent.' goblin nonce, humpty dumpty nonce etc
 

Murphy

cat malogen
Humpty Dumpty nonce does have a ring to it

An ex made life uncomfortable for about 18months. Overseas lady, got through to near enough every mate, phone, email, pizza gaff, food delivery. Sent pics to an employer who was chilled, thank fuck, working illegally. Ringing my Dad threatening to have my folks shot when they arrived in Philly for a clan get together isn’t something you do to someone from Belfast either. The answer? Logged everything, sent it all to her father and, after a phone call from (how can I put this) an intermediary to him, it finally stopped

The law wasn't nearly enough. Think she fucked my visa situation permanently, would be hesitant going through east coast terminals post new metric passport. Never stopped loving you Philadelphia. You think you know psychos growing up in certain areas but she was on a different level altogether
 

Murphy

cat malogen
That woman was!

You get the flip too. Pint of wife-beater as cultural artefact. A mate called it a variety of Phil Tufnell face - a type of predatory male you’d see out on the piss, flushed cheeks, very polite until drunk. Cue sneers and you looking at my pint mate fury, repeat offenders propping up a chippy full of pub dust winding every cunt up. Gaggle of people trying to pull his female companion away during fractious verbals but stalker typologies? Proper fucked

See a lot of coercive control with work. One of the worst was during induction. A partner to a lass in an awful situation who, after being told not to abuse her by multiple people after her pregnancy, was still covertly pimping and raping her regularly, causing even more damage. About a year after her delivery she got pneumonia so she couldn’t street hustle bringing in £ and, shortly after, he murdered her. Total social services prolapse, multiple warnings didn’t get through or were ignored. Will never forget her face of distilled duress, stress and brutality caught in a half-smile
 

Murphy

cat malogen
or a friend introduces you to a new partner and you twig early on (judgementally of course) they’re a wrong un

seen it with friends every now and again, insisting on trying to save the situation until reality finally phone’s repeatedly at 4am

this is only funny in the context of an old mate who if you put him on 100 dates would pull the psycho every time
 

william kent

Well-known member
I think being stalked by anyone is terrifying, but you're more likely to be physically harmed by a man. I've never been physically threatened by a woman, but I've had a bloke threaten to stamp on my head and another one threaten to rape me.
 

luka

Well-known member
I think being stalked by anyone is terrifying, but you're more likely to be physically harmed by a man. I've never been physically threatened by a woman, but I've had a bloke threaten to stamp on my head and another one threaten to rape me.
Move out of Didcot ffs version
 

william kent

Well-known member
or a friend introduces you to a new partner and you twig early on (judgementally of course) they’re a wrong un

This is what's terrifying about the person I mentioned a few pages back. I met her a few times and she seemed totally fine, no warning bells going off or anything.
 

william kent

Well-known member
A bloke followed me into a public toilet and hung about outside my cubicle with his hands down his pants when I was a teenager too.

There were a bunch of free ones so he clearly wasn't waiting to use it and when I opened the door he was stood there with his jeans undone, fumbling about.

I just quickly walked past him and got out of there.
 

william kent

Well-known member
It's interesting how allegations stick or don't stick. I've known people who were pretty much confirmed creeps and just didn't care, seemingly lived as normal and nobody around them did anything and then there are people like the person I mentioned who was falsely accused who's lost his job and whose life is currently in tatters.
 

Corpsey

bandz ahoy
Feeling protected by God right now cos I've never been stalked or threatened with rape or any of that

Probably living an extremely sheltered, cautious, solitary and celibate life helps account for that
 

Corpsey

bandz ahoy
"neurodivergent" like omen. sadmanbarty had some shivering of conscience when he realised all the victims of the noncehunting videos he was watching were also 'neurodivergent.' goblin nonce, humpty dumpty nonce etc
The Parkland shooter's defence plead mitigating circumstances on account of his mother doing coke and drinking while she was pregnant with him.
 
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