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I stumbled recently into a clipping, and it really drove home for me what the central drama of this thread is.
Serano describes the misogyny of seeing the feminine as unnatural or unnecessary or not particularly desirable. On this page, malelesbian is, I believe, with her.
The disjuncture comes when malelesbian believes that he is uniquely poised, as someone who's male, to disrupt this juncture. There's something startlingly egotistical about seeing men's expression of gender as a unique point of leverage against the forces of conformity, without ever according that esteem to women doing similar things. (And this is before we get to malelesbian's obvious butchering of butchness.)
Will come back to see how this thread is progressing in another few months.