im always baffled by this sort of thing. ive never read a book that came remotely close to changing my life. i forget them a couple of days after i finish them.
You lie.
im always baffled by this sort of thing. ive never read a book that came remotely close to changing my life. i forget them a couple of days after i finish them.
I'd be interested to read a book about Robbie Savage, but not by him. He strikes me as a man of zero self-awareness.
Fair point.
As for the Strauss, 'negging' has become a key slang-word in conversations with one of my friends (he's read it, I haven't).
And (sadly?) it is actually quite a workable concept, given most people's shaky sense of self-esteem (especially if covered over with bravado).
Jesus christ, I hate all that pick-up expert bullshit. Every meathead fuckwit I know is into it. If you're good looking/tall/funny/cool you're going to find it easy to sleep around, otherwise forget about it. What a racket.
Likewise. Couldn't be arsed after reading 'LF' - life's too short.
It won't work for meathead fuckwits because they're following the game, not staying ahead of it. But it really did change my mate's life for a while: from being a total wuss, to getting off with any girl in the place. Until he got bored of it anyway.
I found that it all reeks of a severe lack of dignity and respect for the woman these "artists" want to pick up
It won't work for meathead fuckwits because they're following the game, not staying ahead of it. But it really did change my mate's life for a while: from being a total wuss, to getting off with any girl in the place. Until he got bored of it anyway.
Especially if you are stronger and faster than them."It's absoloutely mindblowing finding out how easy it is to actually kiss girls."
Clearly there are respect issues within the community, are they really any different to the ones you find everywhere else?
Most relationships are not that healthy and a lot of sex is driven by esteem issues and maniplulation.
To the extent there's anything special going on in the 'pick-up community', then surely it's men trying to work out what the hell they're supposed to be doing with their lives in a 'post-feminist' world where the rules are increasingly unclear.
t might be nice if that was a dialogue girls could be more actively included in, but like everything else it's a work in progress.
I dabbled in this area myself. Usually leading me to dating foreign girls who needed showing around London and to be fucked by a local. Without that Pester Square Posse, a lot of foreign girls would have shit times in London. As a result, got a couple of free holidays later on and spent New Year 07/08 in one of the poshest sex clubs in Europe. Got my heartbroken and other stuff too, but that's okay.
I hate discussions about "men's role in the world which transfer male disatifactions and inadequacy back onto women and feminism. IMO, feminims is a boon for men, because it increases the status, respect and political consciousness of our partners. How is that not a good thing?