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The thing is, people in functional relationships are so boring. Like my boyfriend's parents. They don't even really talk much, they just "communicate" and do everything right. It really weirds me out. They don't yell, they don't have emotions as far as I can tell, they do their own thing most of the time, and they never, ever demean one another.

Where is the fucking fun in that?

LOL
 
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i've been waiting for someone to laugh at that...at least somebody gets my sense of humor
 

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I agree with this. What about familial love though? That seems just as problematic to me as romantic-sexual. There is almost no factoring in of desert either with familial love, a parent is expected as a matter of course to love their child (via genetic and social pressures). As a child this led me to feel extremely alienated from familial love as a merely deterministic process devoid of rationale (or rather, devoid of personalised, specific rationale, and hence bereft of any substance). It rendered familial love a sinister thing, a robotic orthodoxy where you can see through the illusory sense of personal free will to the socio-linguistic/genetic programme-code beneath...

autism
 
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Gek is probably the least autistic person here...

BUT if you're going to credit capitalism with the rise inautism, I'm right behind you :)
 
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hmm Aspberger's, maybe. Autism is a spectrum disorder--my guess is that anyone who is rationally talking about how they consciously felt the family to be an orthodoxy is not autistic. Autistic people would not even know that people usually "connect" ...
 

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BUT if you're going to credit capitalism with the rise inautism, I'm right behind you :)

Possibly only in that some aspergers cases are probably merely naturally shy or thoughtful people confused by or barred entry to the social hall of mirrors that capitalist identity proliferation creates. Or perhaps not 'naturally,' just by choice - in which case they are making moves that crucial players find illegitimate.
 
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Yes, but I'd add to that full-blown autism as a form of resistance, humans are good at resisting what's bad for them on a biological level in some ways (in others, we're obviously not)...

Autistics are bad, bad consumers.
 
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Burroughs was a super-rich, Ivy League educated, brilliant man with impeccable grammatical skills. He obviously *chose* to use the parlance of the times there. Maybe because he knew what he was saying was ridiculous, who knows?
 

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BUT if you're going to credit capitalism with the rise inautism, I'm right behind you :)

If that's the case, then I don't really see this as a master stroke on capitalism's part, as I expect most autistics are pretty lousy consumers. (Edit: I see you said this too.) Except perhaps of those toys that implore you to 'collect them all!" in some autistic children? I dunno.
 

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Yes, but I'd add to that full-blown autism as a form of resistance, humans are good at resisting what's bad for them on a biological level in some ways (in others, we're obviously not)...

Autistics are bad, bad consumers.

tee hee

I was so mind-numbingly bored during my teaching course (only when at college, tho) that I had two choices: a) unleash the battalions of arguments that every single moronic lecture marshalled inside me b) resign myself to the fact that few of the lecturers were able or eager to thrash things out properly. After a while, I chose b) with occasional bursts of a) for amusement, meaning that, to them, I looked very distant and aspergersish (they commented on this explicitly).

There is the phenomenon of 'elective mutism' which occasionally manifests in primary school children.
 

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If that's the case, then I don't really see this as a master stroke on capitalism's part, as I expect most autistics are pretty lousy consumers. (Edit: I see you said this too.) Except perhaps of those toys that implore you to 'collect them all!" in some autistic children? I dunno.

It's whirling combination of objective detail and relational information (continually reformulated and repackaged by the market) that confuses those on the autistic scale - where the rules (whose importance is not usually immediately obvious or relevant to them) are always shifting. 'Fashion sense' usually eludes autistic scale ppl for this reason.
 
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